Hi I'm really wondering how important sex is to a woman in the relationship, because I've got this awful problem of losing my focus and going soft sometimes, maybe 3 times a session. I can get things going again, but how frustrating is this to her, and how much does it matter in the relationship?
It all depends on the girl. Some girls will go toe to toe with your 3 sessions an raise you 2 more. .hahah.
Some girls have a higher sex drive then others. I don't think it's a big deal in the relationship but it does play alil part. We don't want our men wondering out there looking for something else so we satisfy them every way we can.
If you think it's an issue with YOUR GIRL, then I think you should talk to her about it.
Well in a relationship, it may not matter as much in the long run, because a relationship is based on mental, emotional connection. While having sex it might matter a lot. Yeah, that can be frustrating. I've never had it happen to me 3 times a session before. But it's happened 1 a session a couple times and it is little frustrating. But if you're in a relationship she'll understand. But try to keep focus. Keep your eye on the prize son.
What,how and WHY, are you losing your focus? I don't understand. Aren't you focused on what's in front of you? Does she like dirty talk? If they don't I usually just think things to my self about how she's my dirty little.And how I'm going to do this or that to her. Try and keep your self focused that way.
maybe try some new things in the bedroom. try having sex somewhere else in the house. maybe with a window open. it could be that your just not into having "regular sex." switch up styles and try something new. that she's willing to do of course bring some sex toys into play. try a **** ring of even a pump if you continue to have problems. but if you go soft again, don't think about it to much, continue to please here either with oral or with your hands. keep the thoughts away from your hardon.
oh if your losing focus, try concentrating on what your hands are doing and where they are. that could help you stay a little more focused with the task at hand.