please don't bash on me okay.but okay, I've been with this guy for a couple of years. we broken up and are still friends. even when I'm around him I don't want to be with him you know. but I gave him my virginity. and now I have a really high sex drive. but I don't want to have sex with someone I don't know. but I don't want to be with my ex and all feelings are gone for him. I'm not looking for attachment. I know its wrong. I've tried everything but ya how should I handle it? how do I approach him on the idea? would you guys do it? I mean I really don't want to be with him we've been broken up for a long time now. I can tell there's really nothing there between us but. please give advice should I just forget it? or what?
If there's nothing there, then it's probably not going to be exclusive as far as he's concerned. So I would move on. It can't be hard to find and get to know another person who wants something monogamous - and lots of it.
I like the friends with benefits! As a lot of the others have said it's safer than picking up some nut job. Now the thing that is kind of unknown is does he have sex with other girls & is he bringing that to you? You have no feeling for him & for the most part that's good! Your just using him for sex. Now the thing is when one of you find some else are you sure that you or him won't really be hurt or jealous? That of course may end things poorly. What should you do? I hope some of us helped but by you writing this & if I read it correctly I think that you just want to stop & give up the relationship. GOOD LUCK.
find yourself some f*** buddies, friends with benefits. whatever you want to call it. someone who you know and who you trust to have meaningless great friend sex. the great thing is you can have more than one. the downfall is they or you might start to fall for one another and that can cause some non wanted drama. so talk to some of your close guy friends. or go out of your way and get to know some new ones but make sure you both know that its not gonna go anywhere farther than just some good ol' fun in the sack
But the thing is I'm only scared about stuff I can catch and I know my ex was a virgin too but I know its sounds horrible but I just want to do it and like not talk too him lol!! like a one night stand - 4 months ago
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Ahhh the good old ONS. that's kinda what a f*** buddy is... just someone you know. and someone you know who doesn't have anything. always be prepared and have condoms with you. don't leave it up to the guy. and ask the guy when you get to a certain point of talking to him if he does have anything. but always have protection with you - 4 months ago
Hmm.it sounds like emotionally you are prepared. Have you thought about maybe finding some other friends, or watching porn and getting yourself off? I mean this would be a temporary fix. But whatever you do, please oh please, wear condoms. There are male and females condoms. Use spermacides, etc. Are you on the pill? If not, get on it. Does he other sex partners. Asking this would put your question in a more perspective window. It is great that you don't want to sleep around. Remember there are many STD's that are around that don't show up for years, etc. Always protect yourself, you can never be to sure. Good Luck!
Go for it. You'd be using him, but guys don't mind being used as much as girls do. The only tricky part is not being heartbroken if he finds someone else. If you can handle that, I don't see anything wrong with it.
You say you know he doesn't have any STDs but the fact of the matter is YOU DON'T KNOW. You haven't been together for how long?!.I'm sure he's been with other girls, You don't know what he's been up to sexually. You can only hope and assume he doesn't have any STDs.
21/2 years and he was a virgin and um sweet heart I do know and um no ur wrong I'm his first do you live my life? do you know him? I don't think so. sounds to me like you don't know what your talking bout - 4 months ago
She's only asking a good question. I asked the same thing. You can't be the only one he has been with. I'd worry if he was bringing STD's too - 4 months ago
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Um ok, You did ask a question, I gave my opinion. Do you live with this guy? Are you with him every moment to KNOW for sure he's not with anyone else. I highly doubt it. I'm just saying guys will be guys and if your not together and he's out with other chicks, You jus never know. - 4 months ago
You lost your virginity to him so your always going to want to be with him.
Of course he's going to want it, What guy is going to pass up sex? .Yea I rest my case. So If you don't want to have anything to do with him then move on. Unless you just want to be friends with benefits then that's on you.
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