Is there a way to become a better kisser?

umm.well if you girlfriend has told you that then simply tell her in a sweet, romantic way, than show me how.

Yes, don't suck on her lips, and don't slobber all over her face. use your tongue to "drive" deep into her mouth, stay there, don't let your lips wander around her face.deep kissing with your tongue is totally sensual. bad kissers are a deal breaker for me.LOL

I don't know what to tell you about what you are doing wrong, but I can tell you that the worst kisses I've ever had were wet & sloppy, where I was swallowing his spit more then mine and my face was wet, like a dog had licked me. Yuck. So my rules for kissing would have to be moist but not wet kisses, and don't try and swab her tonsils.

Often if you're with someone who is willing to work with you, who you consider a good kisser, just follow their lead. My observation is that if there's a guy that tries to take control of the kiss, and he isn't a great kisser, it gets really ugly. I've tried hard enough to get him to just let me lead. And he actually started kissing like me, which turned out to be a good thing.

Theres really nothing but practicing with someone. But don't try too hard.

&numberonething!
don't use TOO much tongue.
its absolutely disgusting.