Would you rather have a virgin or an experienced lover

Would you rather have a NEW CAR with no miles or a USED CAR with a lot of miles?
i don't know about these guys but I want my women with less mileage as possible lol

virgin IF it is to be long term (or near virgin but with a high sex drive), NON virgin just for fun

Definitely an experienced lover. You always remember your first and I don't know if I'm that memorable or want to be. I would like someone who KNOWS what is going to happen & how to react and what to do.

Makes no difference to me. Sex is like knowledge, you never stop learning and you can hop on the knowledge bus anytime you like as there are no set start and stop points.

I will however say that being with a virgin is a bit of an honour as the women decided to give you a special gift.

I support having sex when it is right to do so. That includes if you just want something that feels good. There does need to be a good chemistry present too.

I personally would rather have sex with someone who has been trained or educated around sex. I wouldn't turn a virgin away because it is an opportunity for them to learn, but a woman who has an education in sacred sexuality or tantra can bring about much more pleasure because of their education and experiences.

I dated and had sex with a woman of 40 for a couple years. I was 23 back then, currently 26. She was awesome and taught me a few moves that I may or may not have come up with on my own. On the other side, I dated a virgin for awhile before I met the woman of 40. This virgin wanted to wait to have sex until after she had gotten married. The relationship lasted only a couple months. I heard that the virgin girl got raped on her school campus almost half a year after we broke up. I was of course brought in for questioning since I was the last guy she was with. I never found out who raped her but I did hear a rumor that she ended up having sex with the next guy she dated. Anyways, my point is the experienced lover knew where she was in life and had the do's and don'ts of sex pretty much nailed. The virgin still didn't know what she wanted from a relationship and struggled to maintain her independence even though she ended up losing it in a terrible way.

It doesn't really make a difference to me. it's more about how open, honest, caring and respectful he is. An inexperienced man that listens to what I want and tells me what he wants is going to be much better in the long run than an experienced man who doesn't. Everybody has to start somewhere. :)

Although in individual encounters the experienced one might be better, in any sort of continuing relationship (whether romantic or purely sexual), honesty and respect is by far the biggest determining factor, whether it comes with lots of experience or none.

At this point in my life I would want him to have some experience given the fact that I'm still a virgin. The guy I'm with right now began with the mindset that he didn't want to be the guy to take my virginity (I assume because he didn't want me to always remember him as "the one". I figured, hey, if he doesn't want that from me, then he's not worth it). However, we've gotten closer over the months and we've talked about having sex (we've done other things) and I happened to mention it to him one day about his not wanting to take my virginity, and he said, "I don't want to wait for some other guy." So in reality, I think that if you care about the person and respect them, then it doesn't matter since you're having sex to connect. If you're just in it for a good time, someone is probably going to want an experienced person who knows how to please.

Experienced. it'd be a little awkward if he were a virgin. I'd feel guilty. lol.