My boyfriend is AMAZING! He is such a gentleman and always puts me first in every situation. If I'm not happy with something I'll tell him and he does everything he can to change and make sure I'm completely satisfied.
I've been with him for 9 months and we haven't had sex yet but we've done other things. I want to turn things around and do something for him because he deserves it! What should I do? I need ideas
Hmm well if you're both so happy now after of 9 months going together, and you think your boyfriend is so amazing why would you want to change that? He's already making sure you're always satisfied, and I'm sure he's 100% satisfied too with whatever you guys are already doing. Just leave well enough alone and don't turn around something that's already very fulfilling to both of you. Wait unit you notice something starting to not be right. You don't need more sexual variety to make a good relationship better. You're not married anyway so the no sex thing is great. What do YOU think he deserves that he's not getting right now? What do YOU think is missing in your relationship? Only YOU can answer that one. Why not YOU ask him what you could do to improve your relationship if you think that's needed?
Hmm I don't think anything is "needed" per se to improve the relationship :) I guess we're both happy and reading everyones answers helped me decided that there's nothing that needs to be done and why possibly ruin a good thing so. thanks everyone! - 4 months ago
yea. you don't have to have sex until you feel its right. and you dont want to regret it.
but you should return the favor. stay faithful. don't fight with him. try to meet him halfway. make sure you communicate your problems and get it fixed rather than have it muddle up in your mind. if its perfect, let it stay perfect.
dont let sex ruin a good thing. but if he asks for sex, then tell him ure not ready unless you are. and then the sex will be great. you don't want someone to leave you and then think "Oh shit I miss him so much cos it was so good. but then we had sex and he lost interest"
if you want him that much, just stay faithful to him! that's what's most important.
You haven't had sex yet. Does that mean you're waiting, or it just hasn't happened yet? Because this would be a good place to pull out the stops if you're comfortable. But if you're not, then WaitingAtTheDoor's suggestion is brilliant.
If you don't want to have sex with him then don't. You can give him a massage, cook him dinner, dress in a sexy manner, etc. Men are pretty easy to please.
Well sex would certainly be a nice thing to do, but I understand if you don't want to do that. If you're okay with doing other things, then I would suggest a blowjob. Pamper him, do it well, and act like the one place you want to be in the whole world is right there, sucking his dick. Make sure that he cums, and make sure that you let him do it wherever he wants to. He'll totally love it and if he's as great as you say, and willing to wait on a virgin, he deserves some good head.
Do what ever you feel comfortable doing. You know that you do not need to reward your boyfriend sexually but if you want to there are plenty of things you can do. Strip tease, lap dance, massage, go away for the weekend. Give him something to remember but you don't have to go the whole way. Your boyfriend sounds like a dream.
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