me and my boyfriend broke up 2 weeks ago and I have started getting back into my flirty girl ways and he has another girlfriend. I recently found out that I am pregnant. I don't know if I should tell him because what if he doesn't help with the baby. my parents will for sure kick me out of their house. should I tell him?
well if you do want to get an abortion, then I say don't tell him.but if you are gonna have the child, then I think he has the right to know. .but just know, that just because he is the father doesn't mean he HAS to be there for you and the kid.so just prepare yourself.just in case.
An abortion is out of the question. I am having the baby. whether the father wants to be an ass whole or not. - 4 months ago
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Then tell him. at least then he'll know, and as he matures I bet he will want to be a part of your child's life. and as for your parents, tell them too. no matter what happens, you'll still have your friends to count on =] - 4 months ago
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I told my ex. and he was like in shock. I am also confused, he said that he didn't want to have any part in my life. but then he leaned over and kissed me. I am getting mixed messages what should I tell him about that. - 4 months ago
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I wouldn't really ask him what he's feeling. I mean, he's probably in shock too, after all he's gonna be a dad. give him some time for everything to set in, and for him to realize what his new commitments are. he'll realize he needs to be there for the baby, and therefore you too - 4 months ago
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You were right he has started to get an interest in the baby. he started having concerns for me to. he is telling me you need to be careful, take it easy. he came with me to the doctors. but I am still not sure if he wants to get back 2gether. - 4 months ago
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Yea well it is very good he's come around and is concerned about you and the baby. but as to getting back together, I think that should wait until after the baby is born and settled. on top of pregnancy, the last thing you'll need is the fighting and a rocky relationship - 4 months ago
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Ya I don't think I could handle the fighting. - 4 months ago
you should definitely tell him.you'll never know the out come if you don't try and what so you have to loose? either you choose for him to not be in the picture or he chooses. You never know. Sometimes people are completely transformed when they learn they are going to be a parent
Ok I will tell him. that's the thing though I am worried that he won't want to be in the picture. and he will look at me weird for as long as I know him. - 4 months ago
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Honey I think you worrying about him "looking at you weird" is the least of your troubles. You are giving life to a child. If he doesn't want to be in the picture than screw him he doesn't deserve to be the father of your child anyway. - 4 months ago
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Ya I know. but I talked to him today, he said that he will halp with the baby but not be in a relationship of any kind with me. - 4 months ago
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Well there's one thing off your mind. Now you need to concentrate on being a good mom. :)im sure you will be - 4 months ago
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Thanx I hope I will be a good mom. but now all I have to do is wait to get kicked out of the house when my parents find out. - 4 months ago
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Of course you should tell him! He is the father of the child and he might help. It is worth the try.
I don't think there's really an easy way to tell him, the best thing is to call him up and say lets meet up, as friends.theres something you have to know.
otherwise you can do the very bold sentence that will make him flutter and respond to it more quickly is the.
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