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My body isn't naturally beautiful?

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Googleme (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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I've come across this a lot on here, asking about shaving/waxing pubic hair. And most males seem to think that women should have an entirely bare pubic region.

I have a few problems with this, correct me if I'm wrong (which is why I'm asking) but I'm under the impression that the only vagina's that are naturally hairless are children's. Doesn't it seem a little 'wrong' in that sense? Also, pubic hair is natural, why remove it?

I always get the same response when I suggest breast reduction "why remove them? You have them naturally,"

I have shaved, and waxed before. Shaving left a nasty rash and horrible ingrown hairs and I can't see how that's remotely attractive, and waxing hurt too much to seem worthwhile.

do I have the wrong impression? Should I change myself for the opposite sex? And why? I really have no problem with them having pubic hair, if its there its there, if it isn't it isn't.

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 17 days ago
I think the best example is of arm-pit hair on women. I can't explain it, but for some strange reason I find it to be one of the most disgusting things on earth. I think some guys feel this way about vaginal hair, though I do not. I do like bush.

It might just be one of those things that can't be explained.

I wouldn't change for the opposite sex for a reason like that. I'd try and find someone who is willing to love me for me, and yes, if sometimes the person wanted me to shave, or she wanted to shave, I'd be down with it, because I love her. I'd do things for her I wouldn't normally do, and vice versa.
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nusoulmusic (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Well, I don't really like the idea of a shaved genitals. I shaved mine before, and not only was it extremely difficult, but the in-grown hairs and what-not were just as annoying. So I just trim mine. I suggest the same for women. Trim it down for 1) it's probably more comfortable 2) it won't look like you have a bulge that could be mistaken for a man's package. Personally, I like the idea of a woman with some hair there. It's natural.
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Hunterboyz (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Also, pubic hair is natural, why remove it?

[This going to be some what explicit because of the nature of the question]

MALE-WISE
The reason I like to remove my pubics, is merely to ease my mind of clean-ness.
I also don't want to have her stopping to remove it from her mouth.
It also makes ours look bigger and more appealing.
I also want to give her the mind of how clean it is.

FEMALE-WISE
I don't feel like its dirty if you have pubics, but it would make doing my business, oral-ly, a lot more enjoyable.
That hair gets somewhat annoying.
Also, when its shaved, I have more an urge to have it in my face.
When its not shaved, I tend to find spots where to lick.
You don't have to get rid of it all, just trim it to look neat.


I think whether you shave it or not is all preference.
As far as the nasty rash and horrible ingrown hairs, that's all a result of how you went about removing the pubics. You should read up on it first.
If you would like me to tell you how I do my own, just ask.

You don't have the wrong impression, you just had a bad experience with the removal process.
Also you probably have yet to have someone show you how much they really appreciate the removal that you have done.

I hope that helped & Good Luck


Sincerely,
A Loving Black Man
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dakadan (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
To me it is a matter of grooming and the preference of you and your partner. I personally like a little bit if mystery which being completely bald doesn't support. I also like patterns. I just think it is sexy. If it is really bushy then it tickles my nose when I perform oral, so I don't like it long. And in turn I trim also, but I really do it because all the hair gets in the way and it is what she prefers. I'm happy to accommodate. To me it is like getting a hair cut on top of your head.sure it is natural if you let it grow, but it is easier to manage if it is cut once in a while.
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
ur rite. I have the same problem its always razor burn when I shave so why bother shave it. if the guys have a problem with then let them have a problem with it. then it pokes you when it starts growin. that's our area and not theres.
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grace86 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
People will always do what they like and will always find different things attractive. We have been conditioned to believe women should be hairless and that men should be hairy. Hair seems to be a sign of masculinity.

I must object to your point that hairlessness on ladies is "wrong" as children have hairless vagina's. I think aesthetically hairlessness means it's all a bit clearer for a man to see.

As for breast reduction, some people have such large breasts that they cause them a great deal of pain - if weight loss fails then I don't see why people shouldn't have them reduced. I mean, I naturally have bad eyesight - should I not wear glasses?
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Question Asker I agree, I was merely using the breast reduction example as hypocrisy I am faced with regularly. I have large breasts and I am considering a breast reduction and yet I am constantly told that it would be "a crime to nature", I couldn't understand how it was justified that women should keep their breasts because its "natural" and not their pubic hair despite the fact that it is also natural...

I appreciate your answer.
- 4 months ago
Answerer I say each to their own, totally and utterly. I also have a large chest which I am often miserable with (pain, difficulty finding bra's that are affordable/exist in my size) but the reason I wouldn't have a reduction is because it's a big operation and it isn't a risk I am ready or willing to take just yet. Ignore what others say to you though, it isn't a crime to nature. I don't believe in such a thing. - 4 months ago
 
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