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How do I get him to have regular sex again?

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kimberlyinspired (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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My guy doesn't want vagina sex! We have been doing anal and oral, and he doesn't want to go back to vagina sex. What a dork. Any help here?

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mario123
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mario123 (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
i agree with ilovelegs, just get in the position so he can penetrate you in the vagina.also if he is the kinda of guy that does foreplay like eating your you know, after he's finished just get your vagina and put it in the penis
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Question Asker Well, maybe so, or I can sneek it in (giggle) lol! - 2 months ago
Answerer Thats what I'm talking about!...once in a while you can be in control, know what I'm saying? maybe be in control all the time! lol - 2 months ago

jayman
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jayman (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Well, referring to him as a "dork" won't help.
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Question Asker Won't help who? me? in bed, no, not really but to make me feel better, well-yeah! - 3 months ago

ilovelegs
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ilovelegs (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
He sounds like some weirdo to me! I definitely can see the oral stuff but did I read this right. he doesn't want to do vaginal, only anal? Anal is deff not the way to go no matter how much people on here make it sound like it's sooo normal and almost everyone does it. Have you guys kissed much or make out yet or did he kind of skip those too. You just tell him to get his feet back on the ground because you wanna do the normal intercourse kinda thing. not butt fu*ki*g! I don't know what you really want to do, but I'd say those decisions are bet left up to YOU, not him! It's your body! If you say you want vaginal sex instead of anal, then that's the way it should be. Don't give him the option unless you're willing to keep a boyfriend that's all into sex and getting off instead of you. Anal isn't even safe plus you can mess some of your routines eliminations things you've always taken for granted. It's also something nasty that can eventually ruin an otherwise good relationship.
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Question Asker Yeah, but he doesn't even french kiss. - 3 months ago
Answerer Which make me feel even more right on what I said. - 3 months ago

John-Bee
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John-Bee (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
Ahhh yes that seems be almost always be a problem with anal. We like it because it's kind of taboo. Also you can't get a girl PG there so it seems a bit safer to us. Just tell him vaginal first to please you (or however you want to word it) or no anal. You can always not give him anal & kind of force his hand to vaginal. Just give him anal ever now and again for a "treat" since you know that he likes it.(That is if you don't mind or like it too)
Talk to him and tell him that you need a good jump in your vagina more than in the butt.
Good luck & let us know if / what worked so the rest of us know how to deal with it.
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That-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Tell him this, "honey, the oral and anal sex are great but I would really like to have vaginal intercourse (or "stick it in my pussy"), it feels better for me."

Or something, just tell him. All of the things you listed to do dance around confronting him at all.
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Question Asker I have confronted. I'm tired of confronting. I'll just have to resort to kidnapping, or rape. :) - 3 months ago
Answerer Then stop giving him what he wants as he doesn't want to compromise. - 3 months ago
 

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JennaBeth555
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JennaBeth555 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
cut him off. tell him no more of that anal shit and no more oral. if he really cares and wants it bad enough he'll see it your way
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babygurl-2008 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I would find another guy, well depending on how strong your relationship is, because if he just wants to do it the way he wants and is not really caring what you want its best just to find another guy that well. I mean a guy shouldn't get mad if you don't want to have regular sex, anal is not really normal, well now I guess it is because people are into that now.
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sassysenorita
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sassysenorita (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
tell him up front that if he wants anal and oral then he's gotta give you some sex the regular way. let him know that you are willing to compromise if he is. whatever you do, don't insult him. that will just make things worse because then he will feel like less of a man in the bedroom.
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