Ok I'm not dating this guy but he has told me he wants to. When we are together everything is great, we cuddle, hold hands, kiss and all the good stuff. But he won't go for sex the only think we have done is I gave him b/j. I know he has very strong feelings for me so what's wrong?
You are assuming that he has the courage to have sex. He might be terrified of not being able to perform like he thinks you might want him to. He may also have religious burdens holding him back. Regardless, you and anybody who helps you is only guessing as to why he isn't.
Chivalry is not dead. I have a very close male friend that will not have sex with a woman unless he is dating her and in a committed relationship. The way he explains it is that he knows how intimate sex can be. He says he has had his fair share of one night stands and whatnot. He is over them. He is ready to take his time with the woman and just get to know her.