Well I'm a thick girl I'm not fat but I'm not skinny either I just have a little meant on my bones. but I do get a lot of guys but I think they just want me 4 sex even though I really really do love sex. but to have a relationship who loves me 4 me and still wants 2 have lots of sex wit me lol. do you guys like thick girls 4 sex or do you really like them as the relationship type
Thick or thin depends on the personality. Sure at first glance we have been conditioned to notice those that resemble the models on billboards and magazine ads, but in the end it is the personality that drives it.
As far as guys wanting you only for sex.it depends on what you want. Some men may be interested in getting in and having sex before they get to know who you really are and then moving on. If that is their motivation then pick a couple you would like to have as FWB and then hold out on those you would like to have a longer term relationship with.
I would also right down a list of what you are looking for in a relationship so that it will manifest itself. Many times it will only happen when you have really thought about it and focused on it and then it appear.
my girlfriend is 180 lbs I think. . .last I heard. . .and weve been 2gether 4 7 wonderful months and she's not exactly skinny either. . . she thought she was fat in a past relationship so she turned 2 throwing up her food 2 stay skinny and things of that sort. . .and I hated it so much I said "look either you stop or we are over". . . and she stopped. . . and she's still torn apart daily of what those pricks made her do 2 herself cause they said she was "fat". . . I love thick girls. . . especialy mine haha
I think its two different things. The girls personality plays a big part of the relationship and a good personality allows a guy to overlook a lot of physical issues. So he likes to have sex with you, but does he like you?
Once I heard a guy say he didn't like thick or otherwise "big" girls because if "they didn't respect themselves then they wouldn't respect him." What a LOAD.
There are probably just as many guys who prefer thick girls as there are who prefer thin athletic ones, honestly though your personality and confidence has a lot to do with it!
dont worry what guys want, they should be so lucky to have any woman! Though I think that lots of people are really attracted to different things, I personally am mad attracted to really tall men. I am also really attracted to men with meat on their bones, like the teddy bear look, mean while I am dating a really athletic guy whos only 6'2. So I think we can be attracted to something in particular, but it doesn't mean we won't be with someone totally different. I would argue that most men perfer slim and shapely with big boobs, who love giving blow jobs, but realistically how many men are in relationships with their ideal woman, and how many women don't wish their husband was still buff or had a bigger penis, but are still with them just the same. I think it all depends on the person. I have always been somewhat overweight and for me it has never been a problem in getting the guy I want. I think if you are confident and proud of yourself, it will emanate, and everyone one else around you will know there is nothing not to be proud of. So have confidence girl, you know your hot, and men know it to:)
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