vzo.com .go there.it's a video chat service that does NOT MONITOR YOUR CHAT OR ACTIONS.download the software.you and your boyfriend both.you can chat and watch each other do whatever without the fear of anyone else listening or watching. if you choose to do that however,be careful to adjust the controls on the software so that not just anybody that attempts to contact you can automatically see your cam.there's a control that unless you disable it,will enable any member of vzo to immediately see your cam when they attempt to contact your cam.be sure it's disabled.just ask this guy if he's into video camming.tell him about the software.if he wants to download it, and you download it just chat and while watching one another.what it leads to from there who nows?(cross your fingers)
the site is
link (vzochat.com) download the software directly from there