they think male should do everything, they even don't bother to satisfy male, once they are off, why it always happens, though they know what we like, still we have to beg for what we want and it is done without their will.
Sounds like you've just found some selfish women. Most aren't like that. Pleasing the man makes it even better for us. Usually, when you're first with someone, you aren't aggressive because it takes time to figure out how muh would be acceptable to the other person. But, after awhile, as long as you don't come off as judgmental, they shyness will melt away, and things will become a lot more even.
She's my beloved wife, she's not selfish but a bit shy, I want her to be dirty, but she'll never talk. what do I do to make her wild in bed? - 4 months ago
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If she's that shy about it, then chances are, she'll never be 'wild' like you hope. There are ways to loosen her up, though. Maybe watch some soft porn with her, nothing raunchy or distasteful. Try to get her to take baby steps, not everything all at once. For example, instead of right away wanting her to do a striptease, just get her to say a few naughty words, or scratch your back, etc. Start small, and work up to the more daring stuff. But ALWAYS allow her to be comfortable. - 4 months ago
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When: 4 months ago
Honestly, you're just gonna have to ask your lover to give you what you want, she may have different views in her likings. ya know?
Thanks for the idea, I told her quite many time about my wants, which are fulfilled once or twice and then its the same story. to be frank, I have never been satisfied through intercourse for years, I feel better if I satisfy her, which I do. she cums's quickly and that's finished for her. everything is left to me later. I want to see her wild in bed. what do I do? - 4 months ago
WOW! What have you been dating? I know that I am very aggressive and most of my female friends are the same way. Remember women get just as horny as guys do and we are quite capable of mixing things up in the bedroom.
sex counselor, talk about what SHE wants.(not in the bedroom.talk while watching tv etc about what turns her on and what she is comfortable with)bad spelling I know.find out what her limits are,what she will compromise on, and how open minded she is. most importantly WHY she's not comfortable with certain things. hate to say it but sex in my opinion IS important , and you two need to be in sync. god forbid if you've tried everything and are given her the love and support she needs and deserves, its time to move on
Mate, my girlfriend practically beats me up in bed, I get tied down, whipped, spanked you name it! She is crazy! And I bloody love it! Just try to find someone a little more outgoing bro!
How about withholding sex for a while? If she is always getting satisfied, while you are not, why not "fake" an orgasm and finish before her and get up and leave. If she is satisfied with what you gave her, then there is not much hope, but hopefully, she will come after you to finish the job. When she comes to you, tell her what you specifically want her to do. Command her to suck you off or lick your nipples or grab your balls, whatever. Only after she has submitted to your demands, do you give into hers. Take charge yourself is what I am saying. Get what you want, even if you have to be a bastard about it. A lot of women like the "bastard" in us. Ever seen Gone With the Wind? I have gotten more pussy when I was a dick than I ever got as as single "nice" guy. A lot of women like the bad boy image. Treat em like shit and they come running. Granted, it is only for a short stint, but the ride is fun. Wouldn't want to hang with a girl I treated like shit, but at least you will get what you want. Today's society has in many ways de-masculinated the male gender to a point of almost becoming neutered. There are plenty of women out there who desire a man to be a man and not be so "touchy-feely". There are plenty of questions you can search on this site alone that deal with that very topic. I am not saying you need to beat her up and make her your sex slave, but why not try at least the latter? Good luck.
In our age group I think that the woman was taught to be like that. What I mean is that it was her "duty" to let her husband do that. Their friends (at a young age) didn't do much so they never even heard much on the "street" Porn wasn't available to them like it is now with the Internet.
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When: 4 months ago
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When: 4 months ago
