me and this guy have been talking for a while on the phone cause he lives far away.i wanna have phone sex with him but I don't know how to start it cause I've said things like what I'm wearing and stuff and I get him hard but I wanna have like true phone sex but I don't know how to start it or what to say.help plz!
Well, start describing where you are- like on your bed or couch- then what you are wearing and ask him what he is wearing. Tell him how hot you are for him, and horny. Describe with a lot of detail of you taking of your clothes, and describe how bad you want him, and ask him to describe how he is taking off his clothes. (its gotta be a mutual thing) Describe what you are doing to him, weather its penetration,oral, or anal. The more detail the better. Then ask him what he is doing (touching himself or other) and say you wish it was you there. Lead up the phone sex (it would be sexier to talk in a husky or girlish voice) to the climax. Start moaning and panting, and that would get him going.
Just talk about what you fantasize about. Describe in detail what you are doing. I think telling him what you are wearing is a good start and then describing yourself taking it off. Ask him to describe what he is doing. You can also tell him you are wearing something you aren't. For example, you could say that you have a lacy thong on even if you don't.
Your profile lists you as under 18. Have you had sex (vaginal penetration, etc.) yet? If not, it is pretty hard to fantasize about something you have no experience with yet. I am not saying that you need to experience sex before fantasizing about it, but you definitely need to consider what the mechanics and physical attributes of sex is before you can verbally transfer your thoughts and emotions to your boyfriend over the phone. If you are like most teenagers, you have probably masturbated many times over. Why not tell him what you are wearing and what you are doing and how you are doing it while masturbating? That would get me hard and hot in a second, knowing a ripe young girl is diddlin' her middle while on the phone with me! You really need to experience the sexual act (or at least see it -- via porn, catching a couple in the act, etc.) before you can convey it's sexual turn-ons to someone hundreds of miles away. Breathe heavily into the phone. Moan a lot and with sincerity. He should pop his load before too long. Good luck.
Should I ask him like how he's doing it or do you think he will just tell me? - 4 months ago
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Yes you can ask and Yes he will probably tell you. There is no script to follow. Just tell him where you are, what you are wearing, how you are positioned, how you are feeling, what you are doing, etc. etc. Just go with it. Basically, just relax and let it happen. - 4 months ago
There is a question very similar to your a few questions down Phone sex from far away. This was my answer to her & it applies to you too.
How about things like I'm unbuttoning my shirt, unbuttoning my pants, undoing my zipper, undoing my bra, the clasp is in the front so I can open my bra more easily & now by boobies are now free.I'm touching my. I think that you'll get things rolling from there he will LOVE it. I guarantee