First off we are both under 18, So I am at my girlfriends house and we are outside and she is jumping rope, we were on our way to a friend's party in a few minutes and her parents came out and had to go to a play or something, so after they left she said lets skip the party and go inside, so we went in through the back door so the neighbors wouldn't see, as soon as we get in she jumps on me, then she pushed me onto her bed and got on top and started kissing me, then she pulled off my pants.
The bad part here is her parents came back to the house and heard us, came up and found her on top of me her with her shirt off and me with my pants off, they promised not to tell my parents if I never see her again, but I really like her and I mean we live close, I 'm wandering do I tell my parents so I can see her again, this was bound to happen sooner or later, we were never going all the way.
wow.is this story for real? Well it depends on your parents. If you think that it's going to mess with your relationship with your parents, it may not be worth it. If however, you're ok with them knowing, be the first to tell them so that it appears that you trust them, and that you're willing to come to them first instead of hearing the news from your gf's mom. I think they'd respect you for that, and they'd also feel that you're serious about your girlfriend since you took the risk to tell them just so you could continue dating her. I've found that being up front with my parents usually is the best way to go.
Well I think that was what her parents were thinking if I am going to tell my parents this then I must really care for her, so I think I will tell them! - 4 months ago
Hmm.The reality is, your parent's are bound to find out. Whether it's by your girlfriend's parents or by a rumor they heard, it will most likely happen. Another problem is how you feel about your girl. Do you deeply love her or is she nothing to you? Those are two good questions to ask yourself because if she means nothing, you can put off telling your parents, though I wouldn't suggest that. I would suggest telling your parents everything and then go talk to your girlfriend's parents, too, to settle things out.
Depends how important she is to you/ if your parents are pretty reasonable people
yeah I would tell your parents. It will be embarrassing for a day or whatever, but in the end they will respect you for it, and think wow our son is actually really responsible and mature to tell us about this. It will also show them that this girl is important enough to you for you to come clean in a pretty awkward situation. It will also really impress your gf, because she will think wow, he cares about me that much to fess up so we can be together. There is something very hot about being responsible, and stepping up to the plate when you f*** up. So really the only people you are going to have to work on are her parents. When they find out you told your own parents they will be impressed to with your ability to take responsibility- and they may watch you two like hawks for a while, but it only because no parent wants their daughter getting sexual, its really scary for parents. But at the end of the day, they were your age too, and doing the exact same things. I would suggest apologizing for your behaviour (even though she really started it) and telling them that you really respect their daughter, and want to respect their wishes. And then really do whatever you guys want- just don't get caught next time:)
That sucks! If you have a decent relationship with your parents, I would tell them, and hopefully the parents of the girl will get their heads out of their asses and realize the teenage years are times of sexual exploration and growth! If you do go all the way, just be smart and use protection (no babies!) and hopefully neither of you expect too much out of the first time; it's fast and weird, but it gets better with time and practice ;)
Hmmmm, I don't know if telling your parents would actuallty help the situation, but did you guys try to explain the situation to her parents saying it wasn't going anywhere or what ever. Or even you can try to tell your parents that.
ok.so this is just my opinion but I reckon.dont tell ur parents.but if you live close enough keep seeing hur.but if you do feel guilty about not tellin ur parents, tell them.
It you really like the girl I think you've already made up your mind. But I think you should tell your parents, it you two really weren't going all the way then they should understand. It just depends on how important she is to you.
I would say it depends on your parents and your background. Are they religious? Your parents may be more scared to hear about your sexual activities than you.
As a parent I would want my sons to tell me what happened. Then you don't have the specter of that hanging over your head. This isn't medieval times. I would go to her parents and apologize and tell them that you really like their daughter (assuming you do) and that you would like to keep seeing her. You will respect their wishes for nothing else to happen. If they are completely clueless then they have to realize that their daughter is going to do something like that again with someone else if it isn't with you. If they liked you before then hopefully they will see that.
As I see it, you are under threat to tell your parents if you continue to see the girl. I suspect this is most likely a bluff. I sagest you call the bluff, just pretend it never happened. Probably you will at first see an attitude from her parents that over time will just fade away. If they want to talk with your parents, let them. Your behavior was normal for your age. The repercussions, if any, will be insignificant. I really suspect they will never say a word as it would be embarrassing for them to talk of their daughters behavior.
Well first your parents and her parents can't decide who you like. And if you feel guilty about it you should talk to your parents about it I'm sure they would understand. And if you really like this girl I'm sure her parents won't stop you. I hope I helped out.
Well you said HER parents said they didn't want you ever seeing her again, not YOURS. So I don't see any need to tell your parents unless they find out somehow. Meantime, obey her parents orders and I have a hunch that given a little time of you keeping your promise, you'll see her anyway because she lives so close. One of these days take the initiative and go and talk to her parents and apologize big time and how right they were and how wrong you were and how sorry you were for what you did. Little by little you might be able to see her more and more. Meantime, you need to be keeping in contact with her, either by texts, emails, messenger messaging on here, or her cell if they're not checking her calls so that you don't lose her interest. Eventually, she might talk to her parents and get limited time to see you until it'll be just like before and that doesn't have to take months. You don't need to bring your parents into this unless it becomes absolutely necessary because they promised to not tell your parents. Also, they can't watch over her 24/7 so you're sure to see and meet her some where but don't overly take advantage of that. Do it little by little. There's a saying, "Inch by inch, everything's a cinch!: Good luck!
(Age:Under 18)
When: 4 months ago
(Age:Under 18)
When: 4 months ago
