When I see a girl walking towards me, even if I don't know her or find her attractive, I guess I get kinda excited and somewhat wet down there. I think I like guys, but my body doesn't act the same. does this make me gay? because I'm kinda worried. also, I think that girls look more attractive to kiss than guys. can anyone help!?
Is there a problem with being gay? I'm not saying you are. You could be bi-sexual or you could just find women attractive. There is nothing wrong with any of it. One way to know would be to have a lesbian affair and see which you prefer.
Have you been with a guy sexually before? Just because the church and our government think you should be one thing doesn't mean it is right for you. If you have been with a guy before and then experiment with a woman then you can make a comparison. I do know a number of bisexual women and they flip back and forth. They will be into guys for a while and then flip and be into girls for a while. It is really meaningless to attach a label to it. The important thing is what makes you happiest.
Ive never been with a guy or a girl before. so I'm freaking out. and I don't want to experiment, I just want to know. - 4 months ago
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I'm not sure it is that easy. You can try to tell yourself one thing, but if you find you are ultimately unhappy with that choice then you might want to explore. Also, don't worry about it too much. You are young and have plenty of time to work through things. Just remember to follow your heart and be who you are and everything will work out great. - 4 months ago
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 4 months ago
I think it'd take more than that to say you were gay. However, it does say you like girls and there's nothing wrong with that or anything to be worried about. A LOT of girls like girls more than guys for the reason you said. They're cuter, more attractive and sexier and usually dresses hotter. You need to pursue that somehow to see just how attractive you are to other girls. Like welcome every chance you get to kiss one or be close to one and then like hug and stuff like girls do. Have a sleepover with one of your friends, or have a little slumber party. Try to get invited to some of your friend's houses for the night. Just do whatever you can to be around girls more, especially alone. These are just some hints of how you might be able to learn more about who you're attracted to more, boys or girls. Just do what comes natural to you and move more and more in that direction. You might be bi and that way you can have fun with both guys and girls.
But I have crushes on guys and if I'm with a guy my mind takes over and I want to do stuff, but when I'm with a girl, my body takes over and wants to do stuff. does that matter? besides I don't think I want to be gay or bi. I don't think ill be either and just leave it alone.... - 4 months ago
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That 's good. Just leave it alone like you said and let your feelings take their own course and guide you to what you do, and with whom. There's no need to be always consciously thinking of that. - 4 months ago
Hey girl! This could mean that you are at least bisexual. Sexuality is a continuum, so you might just fall 30 on a scale of 100, if homo and hetero are on both ends. We all have a different number, and nobody is all the way on one end or the other. Most importantly though you should forget about whatever label it makes you eligible for, and concentrate on whatever makes you happiest! If you have anymore questions just send me a message.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 4 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 4 months ago
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