I'm still a virgin. But I gotta say, it kinda sucks sometimes. When a guy finds out you're a virgin and you want to wait it's "so long. Nice knowin' ya" If guys are so concerned with finding a virgin then stop treating her like the plague.
P.S. Obviously you're not one of those guys so my nastiness is not directed towards you :o)
I think some people have values others let their horniness get the better of them. It's all about their circumstance and the individual, you should never judge someone just because they're not a virgin. And btw I have lots of friends that are still virgins and are waiting till they are married, whereas other choose to explore sex with lots of different partners. It suits them and makes them happy so I don't get why people have a problem with it.
Yes there are virgins out there, perhaps your trying to pick up skanks at the wrong place, and your motto song should be (I like my women a little on the trashy side) what? do you get perverted kicks out of these questions you post on here? Here is your answer, I was a virgin on my wedding night, was engaged 9 times before I said I DO, and only kissed 4 guys that I was engaged too. OLD FASHIONED TO THE HILLS and sex is a dirty word but making love is beauty and artistic and wonderful with the right person, everything else just doesn't work at all.So yes there are virgins out here in the real world, but life real life isn't an MTV reality show or TV sitcom where you walk into a bar(THE ANSWER IS IN THAT QUESTION) and there she is your sweet innocent dream girl. WRONG>>> #1 why would a sweet girl be in a bar at 1am? 2. Why are you looking for a sweet girl at place like that anytime of day? 3. were you taught to pick up your dates at babes or us? ADVICE>>> Church, a walk in the park(midday, I'm afraid you'll have to get out of bed before lunchand exercise) join a gym, ask an older friend or neighbor to set you up with someone nice and preferably cute too, the laundrmat around daytime hours, local library try reading a book, join a book reading club etc. you seem like a smart guy. make the effort to find A NICE GIRL, but do you have the NICE they would want or are you a loser who attracts skanky lose moraled women, Look in the mirror buddy, you may need to change something about you too. Hope this helps, sorry if I'm too critcal but you asked for it. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS>
You have it all wrong I was reading responces to questions and got sickened. I was wondering if people here spesificly were or if you all "prefer multiple partners" I have a great girlfriend (both of us are virgins) and am not looking for skanks sorry if I was missunderstood - 4 months ago
I'm NOT A VIRGIN and PROUD OF IT , but I COULDN'T nor would I ever allow myself to be classified as a skank that '' screws anything that moves''. So I had sex ,( yes before marriage and I know how it looks in the eyes of GOD) but the intimacy part of it for me was never missing . . It meant a lot to me I'm just not certain it meant anything to anyone else. Your question is cool on one hand it seems to be an ode for everyone young and old doing the right thing ,( or at least what you all feel to be the right thing ) but then at the bottom I notice you are a CHRISTIAN . . So what did happen to all the old fashioned values ? Last time I checked we all had ONE JUDGE ( if you know what I mean) . I can't relate to anything your saying although I do understand where you are coming from. There are TONS of promiscuous people out here and honestly to each his own. I made a decision to lose my virginity because I thought I was ready . I meet a lot of guys that whisper sweet nothings in my ear and I have to make a choice on whether or not I'm going to take the bait. I have to be honest when I was younger I took the bait, but I'm older mentally. I respect myself in an entirely different way now. I now at this point CHOOSE not to have sex because its the least important thing in my life . . .Its not taking me where I need to be. However when and if I do choose to do it again . . .There won't be anything skanky about it .
I am proud to say that I am still one,the values part is so gone by now.The only thing that's stoping me is that I want a good relationship with a guy who's ganna loveme for me not my body.But so far that's the only luck I had and I'm not fixen to make them happy just for that.
I agree, virgins in most high schools and my high school are hard to find for girls. They like f*** anything that moves. Its really pathetic seeing how if they keep it up, I will be visiting their funerals a little earlier then I expected.