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Why doesn't he want to return the sexual favor?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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Me and my friend are really cool with each other. We are friends with benefits. We both like each other a lot and that is the reason why we decided to stay friends to just get to know each other more and so far so good. Okay, what I want to know is this; I know that he loves having sex with me and I do too. But the one time he wanted me to suck his penis and I wanted him to go in me and he said no. But I don't get how can he want me to suck it but he doesn't want to go in? I guess he likes to get what he wants but what about me? So right after that his mood changed and that is how I can tell that he got a little mad.

What do you guys think about this guy and this situation? Update; he told me why he was like that and it was because I SAID I'LL DO IT and then I didn't. which is true. but the reason was because I was thinking. we didn't do anything and then we spend the rest of the night talking and enjoying each other's company.

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INEEDABEER
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INEEDABEER (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
There is nothing I like more than to lick my girlfriend,hes crazy.I just love the taste and when she gets off it's just amazing.
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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 8 months ago
Well, if he's grossed out at the idea of giving oral, there's probably nothing you can do about it. He'll just have to get over it.
If I were the girl in that situation, I'd stop giving him oral until he gave me some too.
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Aedak
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Aedak (Age:25 to 29)      When: 10 months ago
Some guys are a little grossed out by the idea of going down on a girl. For me, it's one of the biggest turn ons, once you get passed the odor.
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Scrimz21
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Scrimz21 (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 months ago
Yeah never change your mind.
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alpinestars-2002795
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alpinestars-2002795 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
The worst thing you can do is tell a guy he's goign to be with you sexually and then stop it and change your mind, that pisses off just about any guy. Just a heads up.. Talking is cool, but save that for afterwards...He'll be more than willing to talk then to you in a normal company carrying way, unless he's just there for the sex...thats for you to find out.. He may just really have things to do as well so take that with a grain of salt maybe that is the only time he had to spend with you, and he wanted to have fun, been there before the statement, "Not just running out on ya I seriously have to do this or that, is a VALID statement, he really does have to jet, he enjoyed your company and will converse with you when he gets time at a latter date. So as I said take that with a grain of salt..


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DeepBlade
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DeepBlade (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
Sounds kinda odd that he doesn't wanna have sex with you... maybe he's afraid he can't please you in return? dunno, just a thought, might/mightn't help.
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hostkeep1 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Well I'd say don't give him head unless he's willing to return the favor. I mean really sounds to me like he thinks he can get whatever from you but doesn't really care enough to please you like you really want.
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crunk04gtp
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crunk04gtp (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
I don't think I understand. Are you saying that he'll lick your pussy but won't put his tongue inside your vagina?
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Genesis5
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Genesis5 (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
I hate to say it, but when it comes to relationships and sex, many times us guys can be jerks.

It's not that we want to be, but we are already horrible at expressing how we feel, add to that all of the hormones that are pumping through him (especially when you two start getting intimate) and any hope of us being able to think straight, or speak clearly go right out the window.

It seems to me that with all the testosterone (the male hormone that makes a male a male, but also causes aggression) pumping through him caused him to get upset for no reason and get an attitude.

He seems to be into you since you spend so much time talking and just spending time together, so I wouldn't worry about it, these things happen.

Before I finish though, since you are having sex, please make sure that you are using protection, and if possible, make sure that you get tested as well. It's always better to be safe than sorry.
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Marie099
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Marie099 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Most guys don't like the taste... or they're scared of "how good they are" and what would happen if it didn't feel good to you. You should ask him to use dental dam.. a female condom or some flavored lube. This may help him and ease his fear of going down lol hope I could help.
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