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He won't kiss me during sex?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: Over a year ago
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so i met this guy about a month ago we have had sex 3 times already but the last time we did he wont kiss me on the lips hell kiss me on the forehead or suck on my neck. i try to kiss him on the lips but he wont do it back... whats that all about?


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toulouse
26870  
Over a year ago
:-) People can develop feelings way sooner than a month. I don't think its necessarily that he does not have feelings for you,but he obviously does not feel comfortable to kissing you during sex.

Maybe like evangeline said it messes up the rythm.
Maybe sex is a vulnerable situation and he does not want to compound that with making it even more vulnerable by being intimate.
Maybe kissing on the neck or forehead may help him stay connected but less exposed physically.
(I know for me, its way easier to kiss someone on their forehead or neck, than lips as far as intimacy goes.)
Maybe he does not want to have to worry about more than one hole at once.
Maybe it takes away from the sensitivity of intercourse to be sticking his tongue inside you too.
Maybe its just how he learnt about sex.
Sex is sex its not kissing..

I have only been with one guy & we did not have sex, but we almost did & when we were just lying together ,(not that day, but generally) no sex he'd kiss me for hours.
As soon as he thought we were going to have sex-
(miscommunication lol)
-no kissing. At all.
Biting yes.
Kissing no.

Actually him not kissing me was was part of the reason I did not have sex that day. I was not intending to anyways, but that made me REALLY not want to. We had just been kissing before that, which made it seem like he had just kissed me not because he wanted to, but because he wanted to get me feeling close enough so id have sex with him..like going through motions.

Tho I do know lots of people who don't have kissing during sex. They say it has nothing to do with how intimate they feel. I e They can feel very close to someone & still not want to kiss during sex- the whole multitask thing. Tho there are certain positions that make kissing very easy & natural during sex
- I think.

(Try asking him about it, if you don't feel close enough to a, than maybe he does not feel close enough to kiss you :)

Also you could ask it on here :
"Do you kiss on the lips during sex -if not, why not? "
That might get better answers than :
"Why does this particular person
(You do not know any thing about)
Not kiss me
(Another particular person you do not know anything about)
on the lips ? "

Peace *

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What Guys Said

  • Androgynous
    87  
    Over a year ago
    Wow that is horrible. Good kissing is the very foundation of good sex.

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  • jacquesvol
    32673  
    Over a year ago
    Did you try to talk about that with him?

    btw, your caps lock is stuck, buy another keyboard, they aren't that expensive. for 10$ you should find a basic one.

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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      I know that I'm not a idiot but my text is all in lowercase letters maybe you should check your computer.
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      The caps lock is the key causing you to keep your capitals on ( usually it's on the left of your keyboard, just above the shift key) Typingwords in capitals =shouting on the Internet. It's gross.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      My caps lock? what
  • afrolejin
    587  
    Over a year ago
    you could ask him to slowdown and try tell him how much it turns you on and see it changes anythng

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What Girls Said

  • girlbehindthechair
    383  
    Over a year ago
    try better hygiene. I know for a FACT I won't kiss my husband in bed, unless we've both brushed our teeth. it's just the polite thing to do...Gross, who wants sticky saliva everywhere?

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  • lostxinxlove
    947  
    Over a year ago
    That usually means he has a girlfriend...i learned the hard way

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  • Fourkaitlyn
    -1  
    Over a year ago
    Sucks. Maybe if you learned how to use caps he would kiss you.


    But seriously to the question, he may just not like to kiss during sex. Perhaps he just can't do two things at once. My boyfriend when we have sex, he'll kiss me but he pretty much stops the sex to do it, so it doesn't happen often. If your seriously concerned about it, talk to him. If you feel like you can't talk to him about it maybe its not meant to be. Communication is the mean thing in a strong relationship.

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Wow yeah I have no idea either, because now its showing me that its not all caps. Sorry doll.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Idk what's wrong with your computer but my letters in that question are all lowercase.
    • Over a year ago
      "Maybe if you learned how to use caps he would kiss you." LOL +1
  • katiesmuff
    43558  
    Over a year ago
    Is this after you have sucked his penis for him? Some guys get real weird about kissing after a girl has had his penis in her mouth! Should that be the reason there is a cure for it!

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  • peace.love.couture
    55908  
    Over a year ago
    He feels no emotional connection for you therefore does not feel the need to show affection.I don't blame him,it's only been a month.

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    • Over a year ago
      Good funny answer !
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Maybe kissing messes up his rhythm...maybe he can't multi task?
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      HELL KISS ME ON THE LIPS ANY OTHER TIME
 
   
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