This might be the best question I have yet read on here. I am surprised there aren't more responses.
Is it okay for the "girl to ask for sex?" I don't think any straight guy on this earth would say no. And even better is that your asking would likely be a huge turn on for him.
Now, I see only two potential issues that were not detailed in the question. First, if he is currently involved or married then this is wrong in many ways, but he needs to have the power to say, thanks, I am flattered, but I am taken.
Secondly, if you are asking him for sex with any other expectations then sex, then you will very likely be hurt. But, if you just looking to get laid, then as a woman, the world is yours, and who better than a past sex partner!
If that is all that you are looking for and you know what you are getting yourself into, I don't see why it should be a problem.
Just don't fill your head with ideas of relationships since he does not seem to be into that at all.
Also, if you are asking this question because you feel like if you do, it would make you 'slutty' then I wouldn't do it. You should never do something that comprimises your self respect.
I hope this goes without saying, but if you do decide to call, make sure you use protection since non-monogamous sex can get very, "dirty."
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