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stephanie1 (Age:30 to 35)     When: 11 months ago
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If a girl has sex with a guy but he makes no plans to see you again but you are still friendly to each other, is it okay for the girl to ask for sex?

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
Of course it's okay to ask . But, if he hasn't come back to her for more, that means:

1 . That he didn't like the sex with her, or

2 . He just wanted to do it with her one time, and now he is done with her .

In either case, it would probably be better for her to just fine someone else .
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Aedak
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Aedak (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Hell yeah it's ok unless he was drunk or expressed that it was a mistake.
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Giddyup
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Giddyup (Age:30 to 35)      When: 7 months ago
This might be the best question I have yet read on here. I am surprised there aren't more responses.

Is it okay for the "girl to ask for sex?" I don't think any straight guy on this earth would say no. And even better is that your asking would likely be a huge turn on for him.

Now, I see only two potential issues that were not detailed in the question. First, if he is currently involved or married then this is wrong in many ways, but he needs to have the power to say, thanks, I am flattered, but I am taken.

Secondly, if you are asking him for sex with any other expectations then sex, then you will very likely be hurt. But, if you just looking to get laid, then as a woman, the world is yours, and who better than a past sex partner!
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Genesis5
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Genesis5 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 11 months ago
If that is all that you are looking for and you know what you are getting yourself into, I don't see why it should be a problem.

Just don't fill your head with ideas of relationships since he does not seem to be into that at all.

Also, if you are asking this question because you feel like if you do, it would make you 'slutty' then I wouldn't do it. You should never do something that comprimises your self respect.

I hope this goes without saying, but if you do decide to call, make sure you use protection since non-monogamous sex can get very, "dirty."
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tsquared
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tsquared (Age:25 to 29)      When: 11 months ago
Listen girl, you don't have to ask for it. If you want it you can get it. Guys are easy.
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lahnarae
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lahnarae (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
Umm, I'm going to say no. Do you really want to make him a booty call?
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