I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years but known him for 9.everything was going good in our relationship till he found something down there we went to see the doctor.the doctor said was HPV.he told the doctor that he was a virgin then automatically the doctor said came from me.he told me as well that he was a virgin when he met me.well a month ago I went to get myself checked out and I have no transmitted disease or infections.can he be lying to me about being a virgin before me?
Update: when he went to get it checked out they froze it.they said if it would come back they would give him a cream.but now I'm scared to catch it.yes I've had 2 other boyfriends before him.hes a very closed person.wont tell me about his other relationships.
4 months ago
I don't want to make the assumption that you are asking for. He had to get it from somewhere. Now you have not been with any other guys so all of the sudden he has HPV & it wasn't from you,so either he was with someone before or after you had sex with him. How else could he have gotten it? Funny how this showed up recently. You decide when he got it. I'm not sure on this is he cured or can he still infect you? Do you need to take precautions?
A lot of STDs take a while to show up, so it's possible that he has been infected for some time and not known it. You /can/ get HPV in other ways, so he might have gotten it from something besides sexual intercourse. such as oral sex. In any case, the infection could have been lying under the radar for several months or even longer.
However long it has been, if you do not have HPV and he does. then he got it somewhere else. Did you tested specifically for HPV though? Even if he did not get it from you, it's possible for you to catch it from him, so make sure to get checked out. Also, even if you have been vaccinated, you are not necessarily protected from all strains of the virus. You can still catch it from him even when he is not showing symptoms (warts or growths) so I recommend not having sex with him again without consulting a doctor on how to deal with it. Your health is too precious to risk for that- especially if he was cheating on you.
I think he does need to come clean about his past. If he cares about you, the relationship and your health (a lifetime of health), then he should be honest with you.
he could be lying. that is a possibility. but also, he could just be a carrier. born with it. one of my friends is the same way. he's a virgin. I know that we've been best friends since 3rd grade. and we talk about everything. and he is def a virgin but went to the doctors and found out he has HPV. it depends how much you trust him but don't directly accuse him of lying because he could just be a carrier.
Obviously someone is lying. Hpv is really common. Transmitted by sex. So one of you had unprotected sex prior. If you are telling the truth then its all on him.
i would say something is definitely fishy. luckily you did not get anything from him, i would say don't jump to the conclusion he lied and said he wasnt a virgin, it sounds to me as though possibly he was cheating on you, and caught it. because chances are if he had it b4 you,and lied about being a virgin, u probably would've caught it too. just tell him to be upfront and honest, because if he put you in danger of catching that, its a serious matter
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