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Anal sex..how is it?

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tsquared (Age:25 to 29)     When: 11 months ago
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My husband is trying to convince me to try anal sex. I really have no desire for that, but he seems committed to trying it. Why do guys think that is such a great thing...and girls that have tried it...how is it?

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mav0502
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mav0502 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Don't be pushed into anything. But its always nice to try something new. Maybe ask ur husband to do something that you want too. So you both get something out of it.
make sure you are relaxed and there was plenty of attention paid to the main area before goes for it. Also use plenty of lube and have a safety word. Its going to hurt a little or a lot so take your time and make sure to go slow. And tell him if it really hurts. Also start off with a toy or a finger and then build up to something bigger until you can fit him into you. But its worth it. For some. Some girls really love it. And will get off by it. Hope that helps
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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
Some guys like it because it's supposed to be the "forbidden" thing to do . Other guys like it because of the tightness .
I haven't tried it . I suppose I would if the girl wanted me to .
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dave216
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dave216 (Age:Over 45)      When: 6 months ago
It is a great thing. Feels really nice. Why are you so against it if you have not even tried it yet?
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Tenchi
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Tenchi (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
Some girls like it and some don't but it is a lot tighter then regular sex. My last girlfriend wanted me to always do her doggy style that way.
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WayTooPopular
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WayTooPopular (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
1. its tight, so its really awesome for us

2. if a girl lets you take her in the ass, you feel awesome she's willing to get freaky with you and trusts you enough to try somethin that's going to be painful

3. its a big fantasy for some guys. we see it on porn and want to try it out, just like threesomes or lesbians or any other guy fantasy we put on a list in our mind of stuff we'd like to try before we get married
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Scrimz21
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Scrimz21 (Age:Under 18)      When: 8 months ago
Well if I date a girl that's not a virgin you better let me take your ass virginity because. It's bad enough you lost it to a guy you regret. So now let me be apart of something new. I told my girlfriend that, I was like you say you lost to an ass but then you gotta let me get something new on you.
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schoolb4boys Why do you assume she regretted her first time, because it wasn't with you? Bahahaha - 5 months ago

kurokage10
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kurokage10 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
I like anal sex,...I never get to finish though,...but the only thing is,...for the girl when you're going in they say it hurts like crazy,...so if you do it, use a lot of vasaline. No condom,...that just makes it harder (so only do it if you know it's safe),...and also he should play with it a bit,...finger after finger opening it up,...then the dick,...even though she said it hurt she said it felt extremely good when it was in,...Also it's so incredibly warm OMG I miss it :(
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hostkeep1
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hostkeep1 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
I don't think guys think that it's such a great thing... but it's kinda taboo so that's the attraction. It's experimentation and maybe he wants to see how adventurous in bed you're willing to be. It's just a fantasy he wants to fulfill. If you don't want to, I'll bet he'll get over it. But...if you do give in, get him to fulfill on one of your fantasies in return.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Don't let yourself be pushed into something you don't want to do. I let my Boyfriend push me around, many times. Its very painful, and with repeated injury, you can develop an ulcer there, and need to see a doctor. Believe me that is not a fun visit. Especially when your boyfriend yells at you after for "trying to make him feel bad" because you had to see a doctor.
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
I've never tried anal but a friend did and she said it was like having diarea.
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pearl1979
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pearl1979 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
At first it's tough because I couldn't relax. It's actually quite pleasurable for both as long as you have plenty of lubricant.
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Anonymous User (Age:36 to 45)      When: 11 months ago
Right here's the truth. Men like anal because the bottom hole is a lot tighter than your vagina. That's why men like it but don't ever let a man shoot he's muck up ya bum because it gave me really bad shits for about 2 days after we did it. ewwwww
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