I was just answering a question & the question was asking how do you know if she is satisfied. I said during sex by breathing & body language. (so to speak) Now I'm wondering is it fake? Have you ever faked it? WHY? If you have will you tell us why you faked it?
All women have faked it at least once in their lifetime. When I was younger, I used to fake it all the time because I really didn't know how to ejaculate. I felt really bad for my guy! I didn't want him to think it was his fault, because it wasn't. I started to read a lot about female sexuality, and bought vibrators and dildo's just to practice on my own. I still recall the first time I had a vaginal orgasm. lol. I almost cried, because I thought I would never achieve one. I was really excited. And honey, it took me a few months to learn this new part of me. *And I'm not talking about clitorial orgasm. That I learned when I was 8 years old. lol
But that changed, I don't fake it out now! I refuse to fake it! If my guy is in the mood, and I'm not, I'd rather give him a blow job, than to lie to him and myself. It is just wrong!
But my guy always seem to find some kind of foreplay that puts me in the mood. ;-)
I do not fake it because I want my man to know how if it has been too long since the last time he satisfied me. If a woman fakes an orgasm she is only hurting herself. I have no idea why women fake it. The only reason I could see is she doesn't actually like sex and just wants to make her man happy. I get a little suspicious when guys say they satisfy their woman every time through intercourse alone. Hmm something smells fishy about that ;)
All very good points! well taken. If I don't get some noise the pressure is on and the melty man may comeith reducing my solider to a shriveled up richard. - A month ago
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 4 months ago
I hate making out with my boyfriend but I make out with him all the time. sometimes for 3 hours straight. He thinks I love it. I like his personality and hate the way that he looks but he thinks I like him 100% and I dont' tell him any different. However, because he thinks I'm attracted to him when he's overweight, he thinks I'm easy and will like any guy I see.
I have faked it a few times, but only because you don't want the person you are with to feel bad and you don't want them to think you didn't get satisfied too. They are already done and you aren't, so you tell a little lie. Yes, having an orgasm is GREAT, but sex can still be good without one, but guys don't seem to believe that. So, that's why girls feel the need to fake it sometimes.
Hmmm so sex is good with out an orgasm? But it's great of course with one. Did he at least give you one before intercourse? Tell me if It was me who finished before you had an orgasm what would or what could I do at that point so that you can have one or at least be satisfied?? - 4 months ago
Why fake it? can't you just make him understand that you can be satisfied without having an orgasm? - 4 months ago
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 4 months ago
Sometimes girls fake it so the guy will speed it up or just quit. I don't know why it is, but I know it's usually because you're bored and you want it over with.
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