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If a guy gets a girl pregnant and wants to get an abortion, what are the likely reasons for him to want that?

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705122 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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Cause my ex boyfriend got his new girlfriend pregnant and he made her get an abortion.

Update: well he's only 14 and his girlfriend is 15 and she's a TOTAL WHORE. she's slept with TONS if men    4 months ago

Update: no when I put down my age I hit the brong thing and didn't notice.    4 months ago

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dakadan
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dakadan (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
So what? If she like sex is it wrong to have have it? Why is he okay for having sex with her? I think the only mistake they made was that they weren't careful and got pregnant. I think that is because they weren't properly educated about sex and how to have sex.

Why would you judge someone for having sex? It may not be very smart, but that doesn't make her a whore. I like sex and I like it a lot and I don't consider myself a whore. If less people judged other people for something like this then I think this world would be a better place. Do you really know that she has had sex with all the people you say she has? My wife was labeled a whore when she was in middle school because she happened to grow breasts when she was 12. She had never had sex with anyone, yet all these guys claimed they had sex with her because they were insecure and had to tell lies that helped to ruin her high school years. It even started to come from her parents that she was a slut, again even though she had never had sex before.

Another question, if you are 18 and he is only 14 and if you two have had sex that constitutes statutory rape or are you lying about your age. Does that mean you are lying about her being a whore too?
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ilovelegs
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ilovelegs (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
First, that's because he's a total asshole and has no clue to how this will affect her the rest of her life! Second, he doesn't know the difference between right and wrong! Third he doesn't want to take any responsibilities for what he did, Like just get it over with so he can move on and start having sex with other girls and not have to be paying child support or nor have other not want to date him because he has a kid already. Omg I don't like guys like him. He's the biggest kind of jerk there can be! Srry. .
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Answerer Why didn't you bring that up in your question that it was a 14 year old boy and a slut 15 year old girl. still no reason to have an abortion because that's dealing with a child's life. better to have the baby and adopt it out because there's soo many couples that can't have children and are looking to adopt one. but omggg what is a 14 year out there doing all that stuff already??? where are his parents? you said he was your ex?? - 4 months ago

UltraDramatic
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UltraDramatic (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
Mostly selfish reasons. You can't make someone do anything that they don't want to do, unless that person feels like they're going to lose something if they don't do what's asked of them.

There is no legitimate reason for a man (or boy, as in this case) to ask the woman he impregnated to abort the baby. None. The only reason I can think of why a man might ask for or demand an abortion of a child he fathered is because he didn't want people to know that he'd been having sex, or he didn't want the responsibility of raising a child. Whatever the case, it's absolutely selfish to ask that of any woman.
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dakadan
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dakadan (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
He can't make her get an abortion. He can request and pursued, but he can't force someone to do that.

There are any number of reasons for a man to want his partner to have an abortion. One, is he doesn't feel ready for the task of raising and supporting a child. Two, bringing up a child in a relationship that he is not ready to commit to. Three, not being financially able to raise a child. Four, not being emotionally ready to raise a child.

Yes, you could argue on these that it is his problem and I'm not arguing for or against him wanting an abortion. I'm just listing off some things that immediately come to mind.
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ilovelegs The reasons I think a guy would want his girl to have an abortion is: l) like you said, he doedn't want the responsibility or raising a child when he himself is a child and has no means to do so. 2) he has no clue what the word abortion means.. like it means ending the life of a child, 3) if he does know he doesn't care because he puts his interest ahead of the child's rather than considering other options.. 4) he has the mentality of.. all the young teens are having sex.. it's fun! - 4 months ago
kazine 'he has the mentality of.. all the young teens are having sex.. it's fun!'

You are so wrong.

'he has no clue what the word abortion means.. like it means ending the life of a child'

I'm sure he knows and he just doesn't care. - 4 months ago
 

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irish-girl-08
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irish-girl-08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
nobody can make anyone do anything! he might have put pressure on her to get one but only the person carrying the child can make the decision to get one so therefore they can't blame or say someone made them do it ! I just hate that phrase they made me do it!
reasons someone would want someone to have an abortion is there not ready for children and feel there too young, want to do a lot more in life before settling down with a child, don't want a child with the person there's loads of reasons but basically they just didn't want a child now
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hazeleyes91
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hazeleyes91 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
wow. I'm prolife so I don't like abortion to begin with, but still it should never ever be the guys choice. maybe he didn't want the responsibility of it and/or couldn't afford having to support a baby. still he should have lived with the consequences of sex. those are the only reasons I can think of at the moment.
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