Do you fake it or not?

Wow! That's really messed up. "An ego boost he obviously doesn't deserve." That's super cold. If you feel that your man is not pleasing you, it would be fair to make suggestions about what he can do to help you enjoy sex. So yes, you should tell him, but don't make him feel low. Say things like, "How about you try this?" Saying something like, "You aren't making me come and I've been faking it," is going to do nothing but make him perform worse because he's going to become self-conscious.

I would tell him straight out, because I would want to know and for you, it might keep happening.

I'm a guy and have faked it when the sex REALLY wasn't that great

Don't do either. Just ask him before hand to change a few of the things he does so it does feel good for you.


And if this really is a matter of you not being in the mood, tell him you aren't in the mood.