So, I was a virgin until this past week. I know this is going to sound gross but I have two friends with benefits (each know about the other and are fine with it- they sort of look at it as a competition). One of them is pissed and has been ignoring my calls because I overreacted - I wanted him to take me to the clinic to get birth control and this made him very nervous. I couldn't help but worrying though because there is a slight chance that you can get pregnant even using a condom.
I kept calling to apologize but he told me that I was ridiculous and that we weren't even dating. The last thing he said to me was "Just relax".
I've decided to give him time and space. I feel very bad and want to fix things, I really like him a lot. The things that he has said to me and the things that we've done mean a lot. Do you think he will forgive me and call me back? What is the best way to apologize?
Update: It would mean a lot if I had a few answers! I am very upset about this, and it's been on my mind for the past few days.
Try rewording your question or something. Every time you update it just notifies me, and I've already answered. It's not getting anyone else's attention.
If he won't help you out getting birth control he's not worth f***ing. Seriously. If you're at all good looking there are always other guys you could be with who would treat you a lot better.