Getting Off

Please do all men and women and never fake it. What you are teaching a man by faking it is that whatever he is doing is right. It might feel good, but that technique might never get any woman to orgasm. His next partners if there are any will then pay for it because he will think he knows what he is doing and then get mad at them when they don't come. If you stay together then you will probably always have someone who expects you to orgasm when you don't. It is not a shame on you for not having an orgasm. It is also not a shame on him, although his ego might think it is. Many women don't orgasm from a man especially during intercourse. Some lucky ones do.

The better thing to do is let him know that it feels good and you are enjoying it if that is true. Take some tantra or sacred sexuality classes and learn how to have better sex. Remember thanks to the church and our government we aren't really taught how to have sex and are often filled with lies, so he really doesn't know exactly what he is doing. Help him by being a teacher. You can tell him when things are working and when they aren't. Just be careful of his ego; he probably won't understand what you are doing, so break it in gently. Make is a game. And most of all have fun.

i agree with ace, all the way. even though your enjoying it, your missing out. I would hope that you still moan somewhat and not just lay there. I had an ex that got her clit pierced, and it ruined her sensitivity rather than heighten it. I was with her before the piercing and after the piercing. she used to moan before it. then she didn't so much. to me, it sucked having sex with a mute cause I didn't know if I was doing her right anymore. lol .

Unless it is porn I don't want her to fake it. I want her to enjoy it as much as I do. If you've never had an orgasm during sex you should try it alone and see what works for you. When you do you'll change your mind about orgasms during sex. When you figure out what does work for you give him some subtle hints while he's giving oral to get you going in the right direction. I'd rather her tell me what gets her off and do it right than her fake it and I'm doing it wrong giving me the wrong impression.

I don't want her to fake it I would want her to hint around [or tell] me what else to do to please her better, id rather her have one becuse for me it still is fun.

Dont fake it girl. Just be honest with your partner. Also tell them to take it a little slower or tell him to try oral for a while to get you off.

He should be catering to your every need and if he knew that you never came then he might be upset. I use to have a problem getting off and I would always fake it with my ex and when I came forward with him then he did what he could to get me off first, and ever since then I haven't had a problem.

Just relax your mind and think about anything that turns you on and drift away. Well not completely drift away but you know what I mean.

Trust me, you will never fake it again, it feels so damn good and it is a stress reliever.

with most guys, if you tell them, it would be a blow to their ego. but all guys take it as a challenge. if you ever wanna know what a orgasm feels like, you have to speak up, you know? I'm glad I did. lol