Well I've been dating this guy for 6 months now. But the weird thing is... he cums like 5 minutes of having sex. I don't even have an orgasm. How can I fix that or is that just how some guys are? Once he cums tho.. he don't like you to even touch him down there.. most guys like to be touched after they come.. but for whatever reason he don't .. he pushes my hand away.. I dunno or he just one of those weird guys when it comes to sex.. he has autism too.. if that has anything to do with it
If he has autism, that has a lot to do with it. Regardless, it's not ok that he doesn't do anything for you. You can try using a condom, it reduces the pleasure a man feels but helps him last a lot longer. You can also tell him you what you want, that way he'll be more likely to try to pleasure you too.
Talk to him and see if he would be willing to mastrabate before having sex with you. you can help him if you would like but by doing that before having sex with you should help him last longer.
if you ask me five minutes is a little to short of a time. I have had that problem before and it was basicly was because I was way to horny. That should be a compliment to the girl though because she made me that horny.
Some guys just have this problem. A lot of guys get sensitive on the tip tho after we blow our load, so it might take him a few minutes to get back in action.
Ok....uummm...it's tricky to get at first but the best way is to make him have an orgasm by foreplay first then keep messing around for a little while longer and then start having sex. When a guy cums the first time, we can go for at least an hour afterwards.
You can't fix what he's doing. If he cums after five minutes, try some other stuff as foreplay with him. Maybe he gets so excited to have sex that he just blows it as soon as ya'll get started. As for you, try and focus on the sensual. Get him to try different things with you and find out what really makes you hot. Girls have exponentially more sensory receptors on their clit alone than guys do on their whole dick so there's bound to be that perfect spot but he's got to search for it.
Some girls can't orgasm from sex alone... and if he only lasts five minutes... try some other stuff.
My boyfriend used to be like that when we first got together.. Now he can last forever.. What we done was when he would get ready to cum he would think of something else and pull back so he wouldn't go and it worked every time and now like I said he can last forever..
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
A day at the beach or pool , then a casual place for dinner, then for a walk on the beach to look at the stars. Then the hot tub back at my place. I wear a little summer dress and you wear ripped jeans and a nice shirt. Falling asleep talking and watching a movie.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Anything he wants to. Except what I look like without my clothes on. We'll save that for the second date.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 11 months ago
