Why do people (mostly girls) find anal sex degrading?

Wow you have some great opinions there. My ex liked to do it like that and I can count on one hand how many times we did it. He asked a lot for it but I considered it a treat. He didn't deserve it that much because he is an ass. But I don't think it is degrading unless they degrade you for it. Does that make sense? well, I think it gets better with practice and after a while it gets more enjoyable.

I think part of it is that the girl feels like you don't want to look at her during sex. How could she not feel like it's degrading? Also, she might think you're gay. That's not a bad thing, but in that situation -- need I say more?

well the degrading part should be self explanatory. and for the life of me I can't figure out why so many men want, think about, and desire this. In my opinion it is Degrading to women and should be to men also. but I suppose its to eaches own. just not my thing. I'm willing to try a lot.and new things is always good. but Ill always have to say No Thank You to this one. beggings not going to get you anywhere just going to piss me off. then I would just soon watch Golmer Pile than to have any kind of sex with you after that. LOL there's a story behind Golmer Pile.my husband didn't speak to me for 3 days. lmaooo . I still find it funny

The facts:
YES, some girls do orgasm from anal sex.
Some girls do enjoy anal sex.
Anal sex is like having sex with a virgin & a lot of guys like tight-ness.
It's only wrong because someone decided it was wrong for you.
If you talk to a doctor, Its not recommended, but its okay.

Now I myself has never done it completely.
I mean it went in, but not even for 2 seconds and not the whole thing. Me & a girlfriend experimenting. We were in the shower and she was not in pain.

Another guy told me, that you need to make sure you are hard if you do it.
& that's All I remember. He did say it was good.

I hope that helped.


Sincerely,
A Loving Black Man

Society has made us all feel that having anal sex is wrong. Over the years we just have these subconscious thoughts that we aren't sure where they came from, but in fact they came from our surroundings.

Also, poo comes out the ass.it is kind of gross. I've heard of girls pooing all over guys when they put it in. That is definitely.yeah.

I don't care for it. I don't like the idea of sticking my dick into a hole that holds your waste. I don't care if I'm using a condom. The thought of doing so is such a turn off. The first time is gonna hurt like a bitch for her. I don't think there is any pleasure in it for her. I've never heard of a woman having an orgasm through anal sex. The smell that comes with it when you pull out. There's the possibility of her going number two during anal. It might be a rare occurrence but it's not something I want to deal with. If you take all the right precautions it might be enjoyable.

Probably because it IS degrading! A person needs to call a thing what it really is. What do you find NOT degrading about it? I mean, do guys expect girls to love doing that?