I am 16 and I love boys, but I also find women to be really beautiful. I have had an actual crush on a girl before, and I find myself stairing at girls sometimes, or watching a movie because an attractive girl is in it. Sometimes I fantasize about kissing a girl or touching her breasts. These feelings scare me, help!
I can tell you this, as a guy I used to think it was cool until the day were I found out my girl friend was like that. She was somewhat bi. We had a threesome with another girl and everything, but the after that she wanted to do it again, but that side eventually died or a least that's what she has told me.
In the beginning I liked the thought of having a girl that wanted girls, but I guess I became selfish. I didn't want to share with anyone, male or female.
Maybe she did it for me, or maybe it really died, but it seems to me every girl in the world at least has had thoughts of being with another girl at some point.
I'm not defending it, because I can only imagine you meeting a guy like myself that will not want to share you. In the same breath, some guys will encourage it.
I think its mostly curiosity. I don't think you'll stay that way.
hello how are you I want to tell you welcome in club I am very straight maybe the most normal one in the world but I don t know sometimes I fell like I like boys but hell no I say after because really I don t like them at all , I like girls ,i think the anger that been left after my girl gone to russia made me very angry and that reflects in thinking that I am a gay or something but I know I am not because I don t like and refuse someone to . you know I am fully man so I liked to tell you that maybe you have the same problem Ive seen gays and I am not like them at all and will never be
Well the first step would be finding out WHY they scare you, and telling us so we can better help you.
You can't go on in your life being afraid of your own feelings. Clearly being bi could be a shock for anyone when they first figure it out, but if you learn to accept it and live with it, it'll be a gift, considering you can now date any person in the world. : )
Haha good way to look at it. I guess I'm just scared because I don't know how my friends or family would react to it. My friends and I love each other,(in a friends way) and always hug and cuddle and stuff and I am afraid that they wouldn't want to if they found out. Also just because I feel like none of my friends are going through the same thing. - 4 months ago
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Well you don't to tell them now, or, ever. It's up to you. There are probably ways you can test to see if they'd be accepting. Maybe have a slumber party and ask how they feel about bi or gays. Also, I think the figure was like over 50% of women experiment with another woman at least once in her life, so there's a good chance your friends might've had those thoughts too.
But, like I said, ask it to them like you don't care what the answer is haha. You do know them better than I. - 4 months ago
Woman are beautiful and there is nothing wrong with thinking one is attractive. It is human nature. I think plenty of women are attractive but part of it is envy. If you find yourself getting horny thinking about one then that's another thing. If you come to the conclusion that you prefer women over men then I think that someday people will accept it. My best friend is gay and when I met him he was not out of the closet yet but no one has stopped being friends with him because of it. Just follow what your heart wants. If it wants to be with women then screw everyone else and go for it! Good luck girl.
Hey, thanks for the response. You said that it would be different if I got horny thinking about them but the thing is sometimes I do, and I actually want to do something with one. I guess I was too embarrassed to say it unless it was a necessary detail which I guess it is. The thing is it is a different kind of horny than when I think about guys... ugh its so confusing? Does that change your perspective? - 4 months ago
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Well if you are horney for women more than men then you are just a lesbian and there is nothing wrong with that. I think you should go for it. Ask the girl what she thinks about it? Have you heard that song I kissed a girl? totally hot song. That's what I think of with your situation. Women are sensual and soft and they know what they want. There is nothing wrong with being turned on by women. Go for it girl. Good luck. - 4 months ago
Do you find girls attractive in the same way you find males? It can be normal to think of girls as attractive without ACTUALLY being attracted to them. ARE you attracted to them? Do you find them hot? Do you think you would ever want to be involved sexually with a girl?
I think fantasizing about kissing a girl/touching her breasts may just be curiosity.
If you find girls attractive, but aren't actually attracted TO them, I doubt you're bi.
Thats funny we have the same problem. I am also 16 and I also love guys but I do always see myself wanting to see how being with a girl feels like. I got to admit it, it is scary. Well maybe we are just scared because since we are girls we are supposed to "only" like guys.
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