Thoughts while masturbating?

oh yeah, I jerk off all the time thinkin of the past etc and especially threesomes. hers what you need to do, TELL him not to tell you what he thinks of when jerkin off! seriously, fantasys are always better than reality anyways

Us jacking off is all mental for us.
We just want the orgasm.
Once we get that, we forget about what we thought about to get it.

Thinking of past sexual experiences does help us, but I don't know why he is so open to tell you about anyone else that he is thinking of while he is doing these acts.
Maybe he thinks your okay with it, since he is not actually with them.

But it means nothing but an orgasm. It doesn't mean they were great nor better.
It does mean that they were not entirely terrible, but changing the fantasy is what makes it easier, and that's the reason for the variety of fantasies.
Thats also why guys like new flicks.
You can always get him a flick to get him away from thinking of his past.


Good Luck & I hope that helped.


SIncerely,
A Loving Black Man

Yeah. I've thought about threesomes, hell, most guys have, it doesn't mean we ALL want to. Most of us might, but some might not. There are always exceptions.

Regarding the "past stuff", it's incredibly hard to focus your thoughts on ONE thing sometimes. I've masturbated and thought of some horribly random things I wish I hadn't ever thought of, and I've thought of other good experiences. Don't take it hard unless he starts making a big deal about it.

Maybe he feels you two are close enough to share those things with you. Tell him you are uncomfortable with it. He should stop telling you.