Ask a Question Answer a question Read/Write Articles Rate Members Watch Videos
Read Articles
Sign Up










Nikohost

In a Serious Relationship?

Average Rating: Not yet rated!
Your Rating: 
MiserableBoringEnjoyableInterestingFascinating
 
Nikohost (Age:Under 18)     When: More than a year ago
Views: 769     Category: Sexuality
In a serious relationship (for the guys) what would you want from your girl sexually? (Blowjob, hand job, or just sex)... Because I really don't like it when my girlfriend either tries to hand job me, or blow me, because that just seems like something someone would do on a one-night-stand.

And ladies... do you think in a serious relationship there should only be intercourse, or do you feel it best to do hand jobs, or blowjobs?

3000 characters left  Anonymous Spell Check Spell Check
 Report Question Widgets Note This
Answers
  From Guys  
4
From Girls  
3
 

What Girls Said

springdragonfly
1222  
springdragonfly (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
I think it depends on the two people. That said, before I'd been in a serious relationship I thought I would only want intercourse as well. It somehow seemed cleaner and more romantic. But eventually I realized that oral sex is also very intimate and a lot of fun as well.

Try to realize that prostitutes not only blow men but sleep with them too, and both of these sex acts can occur in one night stands as well. I think what is key is the way in which they are done and the context. Your girlfriend is doing these things because she loves you not because you are paying her to, so try to concentrate on the sensations and think about it as a gift. There's something really beautiful about her doing something totally selfless because she thinks you will enjoy it. I don't think there is anything wrong with that as part of a sexual relationship.
However, if you really feel uncomfortable with it, or think she does, you could always discuss it with her (this will be touchy though. You are basically refusing a gift. Also you really DONT want to say "what you are doing makes me think of a prostitute" because that is going to make her feel awful and she was trying to do something nice for you! )
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report

HockeyBABexx
145  
HockeyBABexx (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
You should do whatever makes her truly happy.
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report

kay-t
0  
kay-t (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
I think that ya'll should do what she is comfortable with... don't pressure her and if it happens make it special.
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report
 

What Guys Said

dohcrwd
2747  
dohcrwd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
How can you don't like blow job?
you would like to have a full package

Bj hj, full GFE
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report

johnsmith2116
5521  
johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 8 months ago
Actually those things you mentioned are done in serious relationships also, not only one night stands.

But mostly I like intercourse. It's the best when you are serious with the girl.
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report

Genesis5
3808  
Genesis5 (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
In a healthy sexual relationship it's typically best to switch it up between everything that each of you are comfortable with.

With that said...

Not to be a mood killer here, but since you are both under 18 I would be very careful about engaging in sexual activities. With how rape laws are now, all it would take is for her parents to find out for them to slam you with some serious charges (whether she consented to the sex or not).

I don't believe that's fair at all, but unfortunately that is the world that we live in. What's worse, is a charge like that will never leave your record.

Whatever you choose to do though, make sure that you use protection.

I wish you the best.
Do you agree?
Agree   1 Disagree   0
Report

hostkeep1
460  
hostkeep1 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Everything and anything she is comfortable with... for the most part. In one post you said you don't want sex and now you don't want a bj or hand job? What exactly do you want? But that's ok its definitely about the connection, not sex... in a good bf/gf relationship anyway.
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report
 
Find more questions on Serious Relationship     
Home > Sexuality Questions > In a Serious Relationship?
 
   Not a member yet? Sign Up for FREE in 1 easy step!
  
My Icon
0
Questions View
Answers View
Stories/Articles View
Messages View
Shout Outs View
Reality Check Create
Notebook View
GirlsAskGuys on Twitter.com
Advice on Video
Sexuality Videos
Click on video to play

Advice: How To Have Friends With Benefits
Is it more difficult to be a guy or to be a girl? Guys v. Girls
Anonymous User asked 3 days ago

More difficult to be a guy

More difficult to be a girl

Sexuality Articles
 
●  Does Size Truly Matter to a Woman?
by  A-R-Norman
This is a ticklish question and in truth, the answer is multifaceted. Now, if one were to believe the hype of male enhancement ads, every woman in the world wants a Long Don Silver in the boudoir. I...
●  A Man's Guide to Multiple Orgasms
by  DagoFlip
What did that title just say?!?! What??! Men can't have multiple orgasms, that's just silly! The truth is, we can. It's just a matter of knowing the technique. Now, most people had no idea that this...
Browse Categories: Flirting  |   Dating  |   Relationships  |   Sexuality  |   Break-Up  |   Behavior  |   Style  |   Other                                         Home Top
  Site Links     About GirlsAskGuys     GirlsAskGuys Widgets     Help Us Improve!   RSS Feeds
Home
Videos
Partners
Search Questions
Terms of Use, Privacy
Help
About Us
Contact Us, Send Feedback
Sitemap
Advertise With Us
Links
Post your questions on your blog, website, or any social networking page. You can embed into MySpace, Facebook and more. Click here for more info.
Have a suggestion? See a problem on the site? Click here to give feedback and suggestions on the new GirlsAskGuys, and help us give you a better experience. Visit our blog here
 Subscribe
Add to My AOL
Add to Google Reader or Homepage
©2008 girlsaskguys.com™. All Rights Reserved.