I really have had some confidence troubles and I am often told that I am hot but whatever. I am supposed to find out what guys like and see if that is one of my traits. physical or personality are great, thanks!
dont post as anonymous, lets see ur pic to decide.confidence IS a big turn on, so is being a tease.ie:dont dress slutty, but revealing a little bit, we love to imagine more
def not too much make up. curves are the go. don't be a stick! as long as you have those, and are a happy smiley person then you are attractive, and oh yeah. boobs, whether they are small or big are the best thing known to man. by far my favourite thing on a girls body.
personality:
happy is one of the most important to me, that doesn't necessarily mean being confident, just having a smile. loving and affectionate is probably my next most important. but most girls are this so I won't go on. being proactive is another biggy for me. wanting to get out and go for walks, or go out to dinner or whatever not just sitting in front of tv all afternoon. intelligence is big not being too moody is better than being moody, but I can handle a girl being moody as long as she knows when she is being moody lol if you get my drift. hate girls that are up themselves, and make you feel like they are too good for you. being humble and modest is much better.
cant be arsed writing anymore but they are my main points. but the first two are most important imo
Looks wise: proportionality is everything. We love womenly curves that's all. And remember not to not wear too much make up.
Personality: There's a lot to be said here, but I'll try to give it in a nutshell. Most of my guy friends and especially myself like a girl who has a good sense of social awareness. She's aware of how others feel and how to treat people. She must also be aware of herself and her emotion, keeping everything in check and not go all moody on us. Moodiness is a huge turn off. No one wants a drama queen / pms goddess. We like girls who are modest and humble too, especially when a girl is beautiful and she knows she is, yet she doesn't let that get to her head and start acting arrogant/stuckup. So work on your modesty, humbleness, humility, cause it'll make you much more attractive to a guy who is intelligent enough see through physical beauty. As for confidence, honestly speaking, you don't have to be all that confident. I used to be very unconfident, but now that's changed and I've learned to be confident. After going through the process and understanding what went wrong, I don't really care if my girl is around my level. Confidence is something you can learn. I AM the MAN; I can be her confidence or at least teach her to be confident. For intelligence, we generally seek someone who is at least average or maybe a bit higher than average. Key word, a bit*** not some brainiac who out smarts us in every way, play mind games, etc.although I don't see a girl outsmarting me, but anyhow, we just simply like to have a meaningful conversation with our girl and want to know that our girl is capable of understanding us, that's all. Last, but definitely not least, honestly and sincerity are very important for a girl who is growing to be a woman to have. I always urge my female friends to be straightforward with what they do and say because all my guys are complaining about the hidden message, decryption of language, so on. It's a pain. No one wanna do that. Just be honest in what you do, say, and keep your words. Don't flake out, especially on dates, rendezvous, plans, etc, cause guys will see you as. well a flake, a joke. And that's about it for now, unless I forget something. Let me know
Do you realize that everything you described is pretty damn hard (read: almost impossible) to find? It's like a perfect girl: not at all moody but always cheerful and sweet, beautiful but humble and modest, not stupid but not smarter than you, honest and faithful... What shortcomings can you overlook then? Besides, even if such girls exist (I haven't met any), to deserve to be with them a man should be pretty remarkable as well. - 4 months ago
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These thing I described aren't pretty damn hard. I've seen some girls who are like this and more. The sad thing is that many girls who just simply got good looks tend to shoot themselves by being too demanding/stuck up. They ask for guys who are impossible to find. Well, some guys like that do exist and they are asking for the same quality. I don't like to speak highly of myself, but I possess all of these quality and more. Yet I don't ask for a girl who has more than me. Just someone "decent." - 4 months ago
So you call the girl you described "decent"? I wonder what would you call me then.. What you call decent I call unrealistically perfect. I have no idea what a girl that is "like this and more" could possibly be like. But you didn't answer my question: What shortcomings can you overlook in a girl? I'm really curious. - 4 months ago
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A girl can be average or a bit lacking in the following areas and I still think it's okay: beauty (all I ask for is 5/10 on looks, the rest personality can make up for), talent, confidence(can be learned), self esteem, ambition, success, wealthy, outgoing, education (she can always go back to school later). All of these shortcomings I can ignore as long as I know she has the heart/personality I'm looking for. - 4 months ago
well to be honest it really dosn't matter if you have big breasts or an ass I'm into eyes, smile and a great presonality that will always love me for who I am. always act your self and never try to act diffrent infront of guys well not me anyway because ill take you for how you act but well a personality that calls you to just say hi when she's lonley or scared. is one I would like
well personally, I ama bit of an oddball I think in that a girls boobs don't matter to me, a girl actually broke up with me because I didn't play with her breasts enough, I am proud to say that I AM A LEG MAN! I think the sexiest part of a girl is from the knee to the groin, but as far as how hot a girl is.
all that matters is that things are in proportion, a tiny 90lb girl whose boobs make up half her body weight is just messed up, if a girls has curves and knows how to use them that's what counts,
its not what she looks like, its how she looks with what she has.if that makes any sense.
Don't fall for the rule book definition of what people like. There are too many different types of people and things they like. for instance, the whole guys liking big breast idea. I have only met a few guys that only went out with big breasted women. I for instance am the opposite, I will only date women with smaller breasts cause that's what I like. I like cute and think cute is hot and sexy, so sexy just happens to be what ever that guy likes. As far as personality, I like soft spoken girly girls. I have a friend who likes girls who argue with him.? Don't know why. So stop worrying about what you can't change. I know that's hard to do if you have some confidence problems. I to find myself in that position sometimes. My advice is that if you want a guy who likes you for who you are, you should always act like yourself.
I don't totally know about girls in general, but what guys have liked about me is that I've got fairly big breasts, am in great shape, and have a nice smile. I don't think the breast part is mandatory, as some guys definitely prefer smaller-breasted girls.
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