okay we see them on tv we hear about them all over the media and movies but how many people actually have one nights stands? how many of you have the regularly? this is for both guys and girls
my friends and I have all had them. it depends on the alcohol consumed at the bar that night but I feel pretty safe doing it, and have done it three times myself.
I have had a few, and most of my friends have as well. Before we got together, my boyfriend had a few, as did his friends. It is a personal choice. There are a few things to keep in mind if this is your style: 1. always use protection, no exceptions 2. do not expect a phone call the next day or ever 3. don't do it to get "revenge" on someone.do it because you want to get laid with no strings attached. I would not make this a regular habit for safety reasons, but if you are curious, experiment a little
i had a lot of one night stands during my first few years at uni. I don't know maybe 10 or so each year. and then some of them turned into casual here and there.
but really, during all of this, I had never actually had a sexual relationship with a girlfriend. and didn't realize the difference between having meaningless sex and making love. the sex is so much better because both know what each of you like, you have pleasuring her to an art, where as one night stands are the opposite.
now that I have found out the difference, I would have to be so incredibly drunk to do a one night stand again. girlfriends all the way, f*** one night stands!
when I was 19 up until I was 23 I had maybe 9 or 10 one night stands. my last one night stand was when I was 23. my friends sister told me that the girl I had sex with was dirty. it freaked me out. I called the girl the next day. I said to her. look, there is no easy way to say this or a nice way to say it so imma say it like this, do you have an STD? she freaked out and hung up on me. now I'm really really scared. she called me back 10 min later and said, that's a f***ed up question and the answer is no. I said how do you know, she said she got tested. well I went to get tested at planned parent hood and I was good. she wasnt dirty. because of that I watch who I have sex with now. after here I dated a girl for a year then my fiance of 3 years. I been single since sept, and I mess around. but I watch who its with and limit my one night stands.
oh I did use a condom, but I still don't trust them 100%
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