Sex with or without a condom?

in utopia, I wouldn't use anything in the real world def a condom

Only if I KNEW he was clean. I've made mistakes in my life of not using anything, I consider myself lucky I didn't get anything. I was stupid.

I think it feels better without a condom, but I don't ever not use them with new people. They only come off when I KNOW my partner has a clean bill of health.

I would get my partner screened if it were to be a regular occurrence. I wouldn't do it if I had any doubts what so ever. I'm the sort of person who would as a one off I think, it doesn't worry me as much as it should.

i can't say I have used contraception religiously because I haven't but i am clean of stds thankfully!

but as for now id never go without one as o really don't think one night of passion with some hottie is going to be worth an std or pregnant

NO! I had sex with this guy who I made use a condom and he hated it and kept asking to take it off but I told him no because I didn't want to risk anything (he said he knew how to pull out but I wasnt worried about that part I didn't want t disease). Honestly I wouldn't unless I was trying to get pregnant because the risk for cheating and catching something and giving it to your partner is always a risk. I would rather have it feel half as good with a condom than to risk my health just so it would feel better.

Without a condom. If I know the guy is clean then riding bareback is sweet for me!

Its like burning rubber when the guy slides it in. Uncomfortable!

STD's really scare the living crap out of me! Yes, it feels realllyyyy good without a condom. But is it worth risking myself for a 1 night of passion without a condom?. No Thanks!

I have only ever ha sex with a condom on once and I personally prefer it without.
It just feels better!

As for STD, yeah sure I'm worried about them.
But yeah well . I don't know what to say about it I just rather without.

What kind of question is that man?

Anytime you have sex with someone, there's a likelihood for pregnancy and a likelihood for STD's. period. You can't get away from that. You can GREAT reduce those chances, but you never eliminate them. So this is just a hypothetical question because unless your partner has had a hysterectomy or had her tubes tied, she can still get pregnant.

If you an your partner decide to do it "raw", then it would be in your best interest (and hers) that you're in a strong, commitment relationship. Do guys cheat? Yes. Do girls cheat? Yes. Do you think she's smart enough to insist in a condom if she did? That's the question you want to ask yourself. Otherwise. wrap it up.

STD's man. some of that stuff will kill you.

hell no. STDS is the biggest worries. the babies thing can be fixed in a number of ways. STDs is forever!

i think I worry more about STD's than pregnancy if you want my honest opinion. even if you get someone pregnant or have un protected sex and come inside her, there are so many ways out of that these days. morning after pill and others, and then an abortion.

my worry would be her not wanting to get an abortion if it went that far, and then me having to pay support. ahh geez that would suck.

but STD's worry the hell out of me. f*** that I don't want crabs running around, or infections YUCK! and thank god I never have had any stds.

i thought I had an std once, I slept with this french girl that I worked in a restaurant with over the summer, used protection of course, but in the morning I woke up with all these red dots on the inside of my thighs and almost up to my belly button. I showed my mum the following morning scared shitless that I had some disease (she is a nurse, or was) and she said relax darling, they are probably just hairs that have been agitated by her, and they were, she had ground up against me so much that all these hairs were bright red at the base, two days later they were all gone. thank christ for that! holy shit! took 10 years off my life worrying about that for a few hours the morning after.