MySpace Girls

Clearly he has an addiction to it, and naturally he is going to be defensive about it .

First, even though it hurts, you mustn't take it personally . These things usually have nothing to do with the way the girl is in bed with her guy .

Does he usually care about your feelings on other issues ? If so, then on this issue his addiction doesn't allow him to fully appreciate your feelings on the matter .

If this persists ( and it probably will ), you will most likely need to get outside help for this .
But in the meanwhile, you need to put your foot down and let him know that this isn't okay and that he has a responsibility to do better than this.. If he resists, you may need to take drastic measures .

If he's obsessing over underage girls, then you have a problem. Cut your losses and run like the wind because he is a guaranteed loser who will bring you nothing but misery and bad karma. Otherwise, see if you can encourage him to incorporate you INTO his regimen by offering up some of your goodies conveniently after he's all hot and bothered.

Mlle.
Bad news -- and I hate to give bad news.... this is not good. I am 35. My wife is 37. We have a great, but very open sexual relationship. My wife knows that I "look" at younger babes, but she teases me all the time that they will never "take care" of me or give me "BJs" the way that she can... and she is 100% correct. She knows I go to Hooters, and she knows I go to strip clubs.

But she also knows that I would DIE before she ever went without, and she knows that I love her so much; we were childhood sweethearts... see my wife is SO good to me, it's crazy. She is One in a Million, and believe me I appreciate her.... She gets flowers, new cars, but most importantly, I owe her my honesty, trust, respect and my HEART.

Does this answer your question?

He maybe is very sexual

Dlyates, the majorty of guys in the world do look at porn (honestly the world had to be at least twice as productive before the internet), and I guess that for the same reason that men look at porn, your husband could be looking at the MySpace girls, I'm really not sure about that, only he could say.

Every relationship is different and many times this kind of thing isn't an issue, although since your sexual relationship has suffered and because he seems to have problems talking about it, I would suggest talking to a relationship counselor. There seems to be something else going on (I am talking about emotional, or social, not that he is running around on you), so I don't really think that the porn and MySpace is the problem, but more a symptom.

It seems like you had a good relationship before, approach him from the angle that you want to get back to that point and see about getting professional help.

Best of luck.

I'm sorry but there is really nothing to do.

Porn doesn't seem like a big deal to me but real and young MySpace girls seems like a very big deal. Unless he is some kind of closet pyschopath, he just needs to grow up and accept he's married and getting older. Those days are over and replaced with much better (overall) things. Know what I mean?