I'm scared . . . . what should I do?

He just wants a piece of you I say dump his ass and make it be like a real heartbreak to make him change! I say he's probably just doing it because he bet his friends or something like that ,I say again dump his ass there are a lot of better guys then this, this guy is low of the low. Sorry to be so mean its for your good :)

Just tell him "If you love me than you'll wait" If he does love you he'll wait till you're ready. I'd wait for my girlfriend and I to be ready before we did anything.

Lose the jerk, you'll get over him quickly.
If he really cared for you he would not keep pressuring you.

Drop him like the ass he is. He is using love as a manipulation and sex should never be coerced in that fashion. If he loved you then he would respect your wishes and not do anything. He may still want to, but to say you should do it if you loved him is empty and meaningless. He is just immature and doesn't know what he is doing and is trying to mix love and sex together.

You should have sex when you are good and ready. Not because you think you should because you love him, not because your friends might tell you to, and certainly not when the church tell you to. When you feel you are emotionally ready for it then do it.

This guy is so desperate that he is pulling out this card. My guess is that if you told him he obviously doesn't love you if he is to make statements like that then he will recant his statement. Drop him for the manipulative predator that he is. From a guys perspective he is only making things harder for any other man that will be following him because you will never trust men if you fall for that line.

well you should use the 'if you love me you'll wait' line that might work

I agree with the first response. He should respect you enough not to pressure you. If he keeps pressuring you you need to dump him and not look back. You'll thank yourself later for it. Anyone who loves you truly will never make you feel uncomfortable and would wait for you to be ready. Good luck. Stick to your guns. The fact that he's pushing you and starting to be aggressive is a warning sign that he is controlling and abusive. Just be careful.

personally from my experiences. and helping out a friend of mine with this same thing. using that line is CRAP. he's just saying that to make you feel guilty and do it. if you don't think yoru ready don't do it. you'll regret it later. wait to you know its the right person and you kow you ready. if he loves you, he should be able to wait. what matters to you should mean something to him. if it doesnt. then he's not worth it.

Dear, you deserve better than that. No boyfriend should pressure you into having sex. If you don't want to do it than don't. Don't listen to his if you love me line. Its your choice. If I were you I would have told him he's got to go.

If you let him, you'll regret it and possibly take it out on yourself. If you have any self respect, you'll leave him or get somes dudes to jump him or some sh**. This guy seems like an ass**** and if he wants to take advantage of you so bad I don't see him running back whenever he gets the opportunity. But the choice is truly all yours if you want to stay and let him hurt you, or leave and free yourself. It'll be hard, but altogether worth it.

Are you talking about having sex?

Sweetheart, seriously, if this guy is pressuring you to that extent, you should not be with him anymore. I know that you feel like you really like him, but he is not a stand up guy by any means. If he is getting aggressive and saying things like that to you right now, when you are so young, and early in dating years, he will only get worse. I haven't met this guy, but just from what you've said he sounds exactly like that type that is going to end up physically and emotionally abusing his girlfriends. Do us both a favor and get out of that relationship. I know it's going to be hard, because you really like him, but things are only going to get worse, whether you sleep with him or not.