So I had sex for the first time recently and it kinda sucked. My boyfriend said I was "too tight of a squeeze" for him. He could only go in about two inches but still got off. I, however, bled and was in pain during the whole experience.
My question is: is there anything I can do to be less tight? I really want to be able to please this guy (and would like to enjoy sex myself) but we haven't done it again since the first time and I'm a little bit scared. Also, should I have told him it was my first time?
If he was being a jerk about you being too tight dump him, you need a boyfriend that can help you lose the tightness, not one that only wants to shove it in you.
i think you definitely should have told him it was ur first time.maybe he saw you bleed and he knows that you are a virgin but you haven't told him so maybe he doesn't like the fact that you didn't tell him. next time you can use lube and he can also finger you first because that makes you wet and less tight.hope this helps,have a great day:)
Oh my gosh, yes you should have told him! And the best way to be somewhat comfortable during a "tight squeeze" is to get yourself (or make him get it because it ain't cheap,) some KY Lubricating Jell. Don't worry it's cool.
Lube will help, and according to my doctors (I've had problems in the past), it's possible to stretch your body out. In the shower, just use a couple of fingers to stretch things out. You can also learn to relax some of the muscles down there. Just talk to the guy, 'cause he'll be able to help some, too, and it'll help both of you enjoy it more.
Well of course you're going to be tight your first time. I would suggest looking for some good lube. They work wonders. Not just any lube you see in the store. There is this company Pure Romance and they have some REALLY good products. With the right lube it won't hurt as much or be as uncomfortable for either of you.
that same thing happened to me and it sucked I know that this might seem really gross but try puttin on finger in first after that feels more comfortable try two try this on your own not before also lots of lubrication so that it makes it easier
The best idea would have been to tell him how you felt. The only reason why it was so tight is because this was your first time. Being that its your first time its going to be a little tight there. Just tell him the truth and he should understand
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