Shall I do it or not? And does it hurt?

It's normal to be nervous the first time you do any of those things. Although stats show that 16 is the average age that people admit to doing those things for the first time.

As long as you are nicely trimmed down there, that's fine. And he isn't going to be grading you when he himself is inexperienced.

If you are going to do it, just let yourself relax and have a good time, and be safe.

Uh this might sound a little awkward but if you haven't, try fingering yourself. I mean you'll probably be ok if he takes it slow so I wouldn't worry about it. And as for the bj, if he's never gotten one then unless you do something awful then it really does not matter what you do, he will love it. But as for the sex part, I'd wait a little longer to do some of this other stuff but ONLY if you want to and see how ya'lls relationship continues and then think about sex, ok? As for the hair, if it's trim and neat then it's ok. Personally I don't want to really feel hair, ya know.

First of all I think it's great you guys are best friends. I would have loved a chance to date my best friend when I was 16 but unfortunately he's gay! :( You're lucky. If you feel comfortable with him touching you there's nothing wrong with letting him finger you. It may hurt a little bit especially if no one has fingered you before but if you relax and he takes his time with you the less it will hurt. Have him start with one finger... preferably the middle. As far as sex goes... it will hurt a little bit. Again depends on how comfortable you are and how big he is. That decision is yours alone and no one else should judge it.

Just make sure you really trust and feel comfortable with this guy so it doesn't turn into something you will later regret. Remember to use condoms have fun and good luck!

Hmm well I remember being so afraid I'd mess up but when it comes down to it it doesn't matter, they pretty much like anything..you can ask him what he would like, too.. and for me, it didn't hurt and most guys don't mind the pubic hair, if they love you.

Girl to me it's your option but just use a condom.

Hm. You are so young. If you love each other, then you will respect each other, and you can wait. Why would you want to give yourself away? And what kind of a friend asks for a sexual advances from an underage girl? on't you have something else to do besides going to first bases?

Please keep your head on your shoulders. 6 months is as early as age. Honey, don't you have plans for school or a better future? You can direct your energy in a different kind of activity. And yes, you will regret this later if you do it. You need to respect yourself first. Then he will respect you too. Get wise.