My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and almost every time we've had sex he starts it. Don't get the impression I don't wanna do it, I'd love to start it. I'm afraid of him rejecting me or just basically making an ass outta myself. Any pointers on what I could do to ahow him I'm in the mood and possibly just start it on my own?
I've never known a guy who didn't like it when his girl was the one to initiate it. Some time when the two of you are relaxing, just start touching him and let him know that you'd like to fool around. And don't think about it too much. ;-)
Don't worry about making an 'ass' out of yourself, after all, you are in a relationship, that is what people in relationships do.
You could also always tell your guy that you would like to get things started, and ask him what he would like. He will like that you are making the effort (guys love it when the girl starts buy the way, makes us feel wanted), and you will get to know some other things that really get him going.
Call him at work and tell him what you want to do to him once he gets over to your place. This said, you have initiated the sex already without having to look awkward in front of him. Chances are that he will be so turned on thinking about what you are going to do to him that as soon as he sees you he'll want you, no further discussion is necessary. This is a great way for you to build your confidence in asking for sex from him. When you see how much he wants you, you will feel more confident in starting things first hand face to face. Just go from there.
You sound like you need some confidence!!! If he's always coming to you.. well then hunny.. he will definitely get turned on when you turn the tables and come onto him! Many guys love it when their woman do things out of the blue! Gotta keep our men on their toes! Trust me, go in there with confidence and do what makes him feel good. Girl.. you can't go wrong, he will LOVE THE SURPRISE!
You won't make an ass out of yourself. That could hardly happen. Play fight with him first and then go into it, he'll probally be suprised that you started it. But it's a good thing and it would show you want him and that will make him more frisky. And who knows, you might start liking it to. Start kissing him, kiss his neck, touch all the right spots and don't act shy. Act like you know what your doing.
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