i don't really think masturbating is wrong or any thing like that but I would like to quit because my ex hated it and I don't want any future girls to have that same problem so any tips would be appreciated
Quitting is not good for your health. I don't think girls have to know about it. Only stop if it's something you personally want to do, but unless you do it in front of them, there's no reason why they'd have to know about it.
hold up you wanna quit because ur ex minded it and ur afraid that other girls will 2? I'm sure when I say that most of the girls don't mind or even find it a turn on if they c their guy do it I personally find it a turn on when I see him do it there's no reason y you shud stop doin it.hope this helps have a great day
Why quit, or change your ways for somebody else? There's nothing wrong with it, honestly. Keep beating that meat, no one should be getting offended. Don't let that one little girl keep you from having your fun. It's not worth it.
There's absolutely no reason you should quit masturbating. Find a girl who isn't so uptight about male sexuality and you'll be fine. Seriously, only a controlling bitch would demand that her guy not masturbate. I can't even imagine doing something like that.
I don't understand why you should have to change something that's completely natural and not wrong at all just because a girl didn't like it. And hating masturbation usually means the person is just really immature and uneducated about it. A mature person wouldn't have a problem with it :/
believe it or not its actually healthy for a guy to masturbate at least once a week, or at least ejaculate in some way if they don't they could be more likely to get prostate problems.if you don't do it ever you could actually get diarrea or cramps, and a doctor could actually perscribe masturbation as a treatment.its rare but possible.though if you do it too often you could have a problem
Don't ever stop doing something around sex that only has a direct impact on you because someone doesn't like it. As long as there is no impact to anybody else then that becomes their problem. And, not all women are so inclined to dislike masturbation. In fact, my partner likes to watch me masturbate and even though we have sex pretty much daily I still like to masturbate.
I know that doesn't tell you how to stop which was your original question. My feeling is that it would be unhealthy to stop. You have energies that build up in your body that need to be released and if you don't then those energies will be released in one form or another and not always in a healthy way. I think that is what the church has tried to do for a very long time and look at how unhealthy our society has become towards sexuality as a result.
In some ways it is kinda related to the church I am attending church regularly and am struggling to decide if I agree with it and my ex was very religious - 4 months ago
I went to 12 years of catholic school. The nuns & priests told us that we would go blind if we did it. Well we know that's not true. Church related issues are always tough decisions. I think that you may find that almost everyone does it & there's nothing wrong with it. I think that it is just human nature for guys & girls to do it. Now the decision is up to you. - 4 months ago
Watch, "every sperm is precious" from the meaning of life, it will answer all your questions, and religion should shut up about sex...its your choice god gave you a penis so USE IT! - 4 months ago
Um. Usually with something like this, you just distance yourself from all forms of pornography or equally enticing material.
This is mind over matter. Just so you know, a few times a week is normal. When you get a girlfriend, and she has a problem with it, and you want to keep going out with her, THAT'S when you change your behavior, but right now you don't have a girlfriend, so why stop?