I think for me each woman has their own appeal to me. Sometimes the eyes, the hair, the shyness, and the obvious. I see a woman's strengths, not their weakness.
Eyes. I think God's cosmic joke is that I'm attracted to women with a certain eye color.
A close second (actually, sometimes this is first)
Mannerisms (I'm a sucker for the personal detail stuff, like a certain smirk, or like with another ex - the way she shrugged her shoulders.) Annoyingly enough, I can pick up on a cute endearing quality pretty quickly, and I fall for it.
It really depends on the guy and the girl. Guys' preferences vary a lot, but most guys don't discriminate based on what they think is best about a girl. Nobody just looks at one aspect. You need to recognize what your best attributes are and emphasize them. If your not sure what those are ask close friends, preferably men. I can say that a nice body is a high preference basically across the board, so that's something to work on if you need to.
Generally I feel like a woman has to be well rounded. I like a beautiful face, but then again I don't want an olive oil body either. The thing is that it's not like buying a car, and unless you're extremely superficial a woman's looks is but one factor. So it's important to focus on a girl's attributes. How well I get along with her is among the most important items. Of course if I managed to snag an absolutely smoking hot 9.8 that was a bimbo, I could live with that.
Aside from having an awesome body, I also love to meet girls who are very playful with everyone - have a musical voice, just loving, confident, emotional.
Eyes, face and body. When I see that those are hot then I move in and can evaluate personality. If that's good, then I'll try and get to know her better. If she's no fun then I'll move on. It's all about compatibility.
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