Do you women find men with really hot girlfriends and wives more attractive than men with average looking partners?
I dated a woman who was a Miss Dominican Republic and I remember the amount of women I attracted while I was with her got so ridiculous it got to the point where it pissed me off. For years when I was single I couldn't pay these women to look at me. But when I was out with my ex, women would fight to slip me their numbers when she would go to the bathroom. And mind you nothing physically changed about my appearance, besides growing a year older.
So basically my question is does a man become more attractive when he's already with a really hot looking woman? Or is it more based on him only?
They might think that there must be something special about you if you can attract a hot girl. It makes them wonder what that might be. And if they really get you attention and you pick them over that hot girl, well, then it is the utlimate ego-boost. To win against a another beautiful girl.
That's so funny that women make that inference just from the woman who is on man's arm. As a man, when I see a really hot woman with a douchy looking dude or average looking guy I first ask to myself "How the hell did he get her?" and then I ask "What the hell is wrong with her?"
I guess I'm opposite of a lot of girls because, I turn away from from the guys with really beautiful girlfriends. I guess I feel intimidated, like wow, they are really hot that guy would never go for me.
I know what you mean. When I actually first met her she walked into the club and I was like "there's no way I could get with her" so I ignored her. Dudes were throwing themselves at her and it looked like she was getting annoyed. She approached me later that night and asked why I wasn't trying to talk to her and if I liked her. I said "Yeah you're pretty but what else you got going for you?" It blew her mind. She went home with me that night and I dated a model for a year! - 4 months ago
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In my opinion, it's a competition thing. They're merely trying to one up the girl more attractive than they.
Not saying you looking attractive yourself doesn't help the situation, because it does.
Interesting. So when you see a guy walk into a club or bar, do you look at his girlfriend first or him?
And I am in no way unattractive, but I'm not George Clooney or anything. Plus I live in LA so it's a pretty harsh environment for us guys to attract women with movie stars and models walking around. - 4 months ago
LA harsh? Please. Let's be honest, yes, there's a lot of women job hunting at the same time as searching for a mate. That being said, so much of that "in-your-face" status symbol stuff can also work in your favor by being the kind of guy that implies he doesn't need any that shit.
Not being impressed by that crap, makes you a maverick in a town like that, and makes you more attractive the rest of the wannabes. But you have to be strong about it... driving a Bently is still kind fun. - 4 months ago
It's based on you bro, like 75.99384%. and the rest is based on who you have around you.
Look, women observe men, how they behave, who they're with, how they interact with people, etc.
Having an attractive woman next to you, is like social proof that you're the kind of guy that's confident and comfortable with attractive women. SOMETHING about you is right on, for such a beautiful woman to take your side (never mind that you're not with her anymore.erhm, minutia really).
I would say tho, that there's more likely something going on with you, that when you're not with her that you're not exuding the same confident self.
More over, getting "pissed off" over the attention, that sounds odd to me. Yes, it can be a little imposing, a little embarrassing, and if she's not secure with you, I guess I could see this cause problems with your relationship. But getting pissed off about what exactly I don't really understand. Sounds to me that there's more going on here than you've shared or that you're even aware of.
So like I said, look at how you interact with people, look at how you behave with friends, with staff, with anyone in general. Women take cues of confidence, safe, cool guy from all kinds of things. Having a beautiful woman by your side is a sign of this, but by no means the only one.
I guess the pissed off thing was coming more form the angle of when I would go to these same bars before I was with her, these women wouldn't even give me a chance and now when I brought her in there it was the SAME WOMEN who now where giving me all this attention. Hey I'm not complaining, I guess it just upset me that women could make a 180 like that and not even care how stupid it makes them look. - 4 months ago
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But again, bro, it's not so stupid if you think about it. Women need to feel safe, as well a bunch of other things, to be attracted to a guy. When women notices a woman in your arms, it's a signal to them you come "preselected" as suitable Boyfriend material. Conversely when they see a bunch of guys sitting by themselves, they may not take as much interest because they just don't know enough about you. There's a lot a lot of weirdo guys in this world and they don't want to risk attracting them. - 4 months ago
Heh, it's not just some reason, there's lots of good reasons. A guy that's with a woman, says he's comfortable with beautiful women, and women are comfortable with him. That implies he's got to be pretty secure with himself. They probably watched him from a far as well, and if he was cool and laid back, made her laugh, etc. just spills volumes of information about him.
Stick him off in a corner by himself, twitching with nervous energy... yeah, I wouldn't talk to him either. :) - 4 months ago
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