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Should I lose my virginity?

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xsamanthax (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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I am 16 and still a virgin, I wanted to wait until I found the right guy but a friend asked me to have sex with him, he is 22. I know he is a bit of a player but I am thinking about giving up my virginity to him. All my friends have and both my girl friends and boy friends have said I am totally missing out. Plus I was flattered by the attention of a older man. I am really worried it might hurt too! What should I do?

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bigascanb
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bigascanb (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
well since your 16 I think you try someone in your age range. don't be pressured by nobody to have sex only if you really want to. do not let my age fool you I'm 16 too and right I'm a virgin. yeah a lot of my peers say they done had sex but who cares. I will have sex when the time is right so will you. I hope this helped.
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itsallgood I liked the honest answer - 2 months ago

involved6
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involved6 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
He's only interested in you because you're a 16-year old virgin. Once he's taken what he wants from you, you won't see him again.

Chances are he won't care if you're in pain (which you will be), or even if you're comfortable, and the loss of your virginity will be the talk of him and his circle of friends immediately after.\

Losing your virginity at 16 is fine, losing it to someone who could care less about you is not.
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jbone79
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jbone79 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
You should wait for sure. Your friends can do whatever they want, but your life is in your hands. Be proud of yourself for waiting. It takes a special person with real guts to wait for the right person because it shows you value yourself as more than just a one time person. the wait will be worth it. I'm sure of it
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cardioman65
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cardioman65 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
First, don't listen to your friends, listen to yourself. It seems that your friends and you have different opinions. Second, you should not date an adult when you are a minor. According to the law, you can be taken in for having sex with a minor! Don't put him in this position!
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joemac
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joemac (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
i'd wait
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istagreatone
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istagreatone (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
you should read my post dedicated to 18 and under.
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TheoryOfAvarice
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TheoryOfAvarice (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
You're not even legal. And sixteen and still a virgin is not a bad thing.
This guy may be charming, but quite honestly you need to wait.
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Belleza (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Sweetie your not missing out on anything - believe me! You know how many times I met girls who lost their virginity to some guy and asked me if I was one and then told me to wait for the right one cause they didn't appreciate and valued their bodies as much as they should have! First of all it hurts like a b****! Second of all don't lose it to some idiot who wants to take advantage of a 16 year old! You should value yourself more than you do! Remember your body is really your temple! Your virginity is the only thing that shows to anyone but most of all to yourself that you are still innocent in this world. And innocence is very hard to come by! And friends oh yeah your definitely missing out - friends don't know much a lot if they tell you do it with him matter of fact that ain't friendship at all! Seriously - (the old saying) would you jump over a bridge if they all did it too? Think about it! Your choices, your life!
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BekahAnne (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
First of all keep in mind that if you do have sex with him that he could possibly end up in prison because the age difference is a big issue. I'm not going to tell you what to do, but I think that you should wait for the right guy. It may not seem that important now, but your virginity is very important and shouldn't be given up to just a friend especially a player. You deserve so much better than that. And who cares if all your friends have already done it. Don't fall for peer pressure. And the whole thing about missing out.that's so dumb. The first time is always kinda awkward and I believe that you should experience it with someone you have strong feelings for. Its given something special up.make the person who takes it be just as special.
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HaggardDiva
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HaggardDiva (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Don't do it. Your friends lost their virginity to him too? This guy is NOT worth your first time. He seems like scum to me. And don't let people tell you that you're missing out, it's not for them to pressure you like that. You should lose your virginity whenever you are ready and to somebody that mean something to you.
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AMANDA89
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AMANDA89 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Hi there Amanda here, I am 18 years old I lost my virginity when I was 15! To a man I hardly knew, I never see him now. Anyway I am in a steady relationship now with my boyfriend of 2 years I took his virginity and really wish he had took mine but he didn't, Now if you go head with this and have sex with Ur mate, 1 year down the line you might meet Mr right and had wished you did it with him, if I were you I wouldnt I would wait I wish I did. So please Samantha just wait huni and soon or after you will meet the one for you xxx
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