When is the right time to have sex.

When she's comfortable with you and the situation.

There's really not a definite time. It's when you both want it.

I cannot say there is a specific time to have sex during a relationship. A relationship is based on 2 people you know?? Not on sex.

I cannot say there is a definite right time to have sex with a guy. I have dated several guys and have reached the point of having sex with four. (If you define sex as intercourse). The majority of the those times happened 2 or 3 months into the relationship. The last guy who I eventually married it happened quit a bit earlier but I had known him for well over a year before we even started to date. Typically I would think that it would take a couple of months before a relationship reached that point.

You know it's the time when she lets you know. . Of course, she might be too shy to say something. So, if it's been 3 months and she hasn't said anything, you can ask her if she has thought of it.

I have two schools of thought on this topic. They are as follows:

The first would be what I have read in various publications and over the internet. They say that a relationship that is progressing at the "normal" rate, trust is being established, The connection is there, and each person is confidant in the relationship, and that there has been at least 1 date a week for the first couple weeks and 2 dates a week for the remainder of the time that sex should happen with in the 4-6 week time frame.

But however from my own personal experience, there is no set time that sex should happen. It could happen on the first date, after the first kiss, after a year, or after marriage.


I say each to their own and what ever feels right for both people is what the right time is.

The right time is whenever you both want to. When she wants to really depends on your actions. If you play your cards right she'll probably want to do it soon. I've only been with three girls, but with all three the first kiss led all the way to sex. You have to know what turns women on and what puts them in the mood. I would recommend reading up on the subject online if you don't already have a good feel for it.

I believe there's no "when is the right time" because sex is a creation itself when the two are feeling sexually and emotionally. You cannot have sex when your girlfiend don't want it. It does not work that way, when one person doesn't want it because he/she dosen't feel sexually. So basically, sex does itself when the two feel like it.