My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for a few years, I 19 and she 18. But in all this time I have not been able to give her a orgasm. As far as both of us can tell I am doing everything right. When ever I give her oral she always seems so close to it but she kinda jerks around when it starts to get good for her and sometimes she has me stop because she says its too intense. She is also kinda neurotic and I am just wondering if maybe she's not completely relaxed. Any advice on what might be wrong? We both end sex satisfied, she is always happy and out of energy when its over but it just doesn't feel right for me if I can't give her a orgasm.
make sure she's relaxed. sometimes when you have stuff on your mind or you feel pressured to have an orgasm you don't. why don't you give her a message before foreplay?
When you are giving her oral, use your fingers as well as your mouth. Curl two fingers in her, and you will find a spot smoother than the rest of her va-jay-jay. That's the G-spot. Stroke that, and you will have her jerking (but in a good way) and will get that orgasm that she needs. Prolong your oral, and try new positions that she's interested in.
When I finger her I always curl my finger and put pressure on the top and this normally makes it the best for her but I'm not sure if I'm in the right spot or not. I know it can be different for girls but is it a general area or a small one? - 3 months ago
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Small one. just feel around and you'll hit it. - 3 months ago
We communicate about sex, we both know what we like. It just drives me up the wall because I feel like I'm not doing my job. - 3 months ago
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Well keep working at it then, if you guys communicate openly then it has to be a matter of trial and error.
Does she climax through masturbation? If not, maybe she doesn't know how to get the O. - 3 months ago
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Well I have asked her if she ever has and she said she didn't know. I figure she would know if she did. I don't really think she knows how. Sometimes I think it is just because she is tense or wound up. - 3 months ago
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Well if you're open and willing to do what you can, you're being a good boyfriend. Don't worry about it too much and just continue to do what you're doing.
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