She were in a deep love with u, but she chose someone else to be her husband, you tell her it disturbs you much that her husband that she doesn't know/love as she loves u, and she replies: huh? what's the matter? even animals do it! don't talk about things that are part of my privacy! and even more, it's disgusting with you but would be a great pleasure with my husband!
wil you be spending all the day long thinking how would they look like together on there first night?! even worse trying to picture her under him if she enjoys that or just hurts her and just tries to fake a smile to that husband to satisfy him!
girls, is it really easy for you to sleep with someone's other than the one you love (i.e. marriage), just because that another one is richer or older?!
Why isn't it possible for her to actually be in love with her husband? Maybe she does love him and consummating their marriage is a perfectly acceptable act for her. Either way, it's her body and her choice. There is nothing for you to do about it. If she is in love with you and marries someone else, she is hurting herself most of all.
It wouldn't be easy for me to sleep with someone I didn't love. It's not a requirement, but I think that sex is a physical manifestation of the emotions I am feeling, so I don't just do it lightly.
Some serious stuff here! love your choice of words, deflower!" but, such is life, I'm sorry that you're in such a sucky situation! but I know for me that sleeping with someone who I don't love just wouldn't make any sense to me, I'd just be going through the movements, not savoring each moment as it should be! my thoughts on this situation is that its simple, you marry the person you love! I don't know what happened, why she chose to marry this other guy, and if its because he's richer and older, maybe she might live to regret it, but as of now you need to realise that she's married and she has drawn a line between you too!
She made her choice, time for you to move on. Do yourself a huge favor, stop imagining what she and her HUSBAND are doing. its not healthy for you.
If you happen to be the greatest guy on earth for her and still chose another man, she messed up and there isn't a thing you can do about it. and it is her loss. If she really loved you, there is no way on earth she would abandon you, NO WAY at all. Human beings don't do that. We cant. You have to draw a conclusion here, she never loved you the way you loved her. She duped you and frankly you should hate her guts!
Find another woman as fast as you can before you lose your mind. She is history and the movie has ended.
Time for you to move on as you should, don't waste any more of your valuable time on her. This is probably the saddest story I have read on this site so far and I feel really bad for you SilentG. I feel really bad.
You are hurting yourself so bad and it is completely unnecessary. DUDE, get over her and do it pronto!
Thanks really for ur feelings. To add a little bit more details, I'd known this girl for a year and half online, we went thru many catastrophes together (death of my father, her breast tumor, etc...) I told her I won't ever leave u, she said the same, we were planning marriage, we met once and made out and loved each other even more, 1 month later another guy came and she got engaged to him saying I was with you only because I felt sympathy for u, but you were not the one for me from the beginning! - 4 months ago
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