How do I flirt with a women

The gay bars would be a good place to start. You have a way better selection of women that are already admitting that they like other women, you don't really have to be so nervous about whether she's going to "freak out" if you hit on her. Don't say that right away of course, but just the way men and women chat each other up in a regular bar, it can go the same way there, and at the end of the night after you've felt each other up (not literally) you can ask. I am bisexual, and while I haven't done anything in a while as I've been in a relationship for 4 years, this is how I approach it.

go to a gay bar for starters

flirt as you would with men, simple

u are married and want to flirt? flirting is fine, but not having sex with them. although your comments insinuates your joking, you're not really and you need to think about the ramifications it will have when your wife finds out.

Sounds like fun but why did you wait so long? Gosh girls do that my age or younger already. I really can't help you because you're older and married so you should know more than I do but it seems like that shouldn't be overly hard because there's no doubt a lot of women your age or younger that are pissed off enough at men to be wanting to do the same thing. lol