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How do I get him to come down on me??

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l3st3r3 (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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My boyfriend and I have bee dating for awhile and I give him head all the time, but he has never come down on me. How would I hint to him that I want some too?

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cuteflirtygirl (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Omg I can't believe you just said that! That's all my boyfriend wants to do and that's ALL we do whenever we're sexual with each other. We're just not into doing any other stuff yet and won't be for awhile because he's more than satisfied with how it is and feels lucky to be able to get that. Maybe you need to stop giving him head and that will be a big enough hint in itself. lol. Just out right tell him you want him to start going down on you now and you'll help and teach him how to do what you like and what feels best to you, and that after he's learned how to make you come really good for awhile you'll start giving him head sometimes. I think you just need to insist on that and be firm because it's the right thing to do. Besides, a boyfriend should be going down how his girlfriend much more than she goes down on him because to her that's a really special lovey thing but giving head to him is just his getting off.
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Question Asker Lucky, we were getting close to it but then he decided that he was thirsty and when down stairs....it kinda pissed me off. - 4 months ago
Answerer Haha omg you were so close but still not there. lol. in my answer I hope it wasn't confusing because at the beginning I said, .":that's all my boyfriend wants to do.." that meant is all he wants to do is give me oral. lol. I hope it really pissed you off because it should have. Just cut him off as far as giving him head until he's gone down on you as many times as you've givin him head. lol! trust me, eventually he'll enjoy eating you out more than he does getting head. - 4 months ago

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michigan2489
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michigan2489 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Well not to sure since I'm a guy but maybe after you gave him head maybe try to pull his head down and tell how much you want him to go pleasure you while having oral sex.

Hope it helps.
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mav0502
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mav0502 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
ask him.and see what he says.nothing wrong with what's good for you is good for him.works both ways.he might be new to it or unsure how to do it so help him out and take it easy.in my experience, I've always liked the girl shaved or trimmed so its easier access and no hairs in the mouth.good luck and I hope he does well.
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attractiveontarioguy
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attractiveontarioguy (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
flat out ask him (not in the bedroom, at another time so it won't be as akward0 if he has an issue with it you can deal with it then and not ruin the sexy fun you wouldve had. make sure you take really good care of yourself and wash your kitty well
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IATESOTK
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IATESOTK (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Maybe he isn't sure whether you would like it. Or he is inexperienced at it, and doesn't want it to be a bad experience. I would talk to him about it!
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wonderingwhy
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wonderingwhy (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
You can't make a guy do that. If he doesn't want to, he won't. But if he is the kind of guy that asks you what you want, then tell him, and if he's about it, he would do it. Don't pin him down and make him do it though, unless he likes that. (lol)
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gravygirl
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gravygirl (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
Don't hint, just tell him. If you spend your life hinting about what you want from men you will spend your life disappointed.
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cuteflirtygirl Isn't that the f'n truth! - 4 months ago
Answerer Yeah, although I'd guess the reverse is probably true for guys too. - 4 months ago

unluckyinlove
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unluckyinlove (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
Don't give it too him either then, monkey see monkey do.eventually he should either get the hint or ask what's wrong then you can tell him! What your doing at the moment is letting him have it all his way, he maybe inexperienced but probably is just being lazy and doesn't care about getting your rocks off only his own.

You need to change this and the only way is as I have stated IMO.
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LizzieeLouu
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LizzieeLouu (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I've learned that communication is seriously the best way. If you're going to be honest with each other, being sexually open with each other counts. Tell him what you want. He'll probably appreciate your bluntness.
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Anonymous User (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
just let him know you would really like to have the favor returned for his gratitude for you servicing him. tell him you enjoy doing it for him but you want to share the experience with him. tell him that you would like to have the same enjoyment
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Shlei3 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
I would talk to him about it and find out his feelings on it. I would mention that I would really like it if he went down on me. If he says he's ok with it then I would start out by going down on him (on a bed or a couch). I would have him lie down.then I'd swing my legs over him so he can go down on me at the same time (yes it's a 69).
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