me and my boyfriend of three years had a threesome with one of my friends I was my boyfriends first and I guess you can say she was his second. but it wasnt like disrespectful when we were doing it it was pretty much me and my boyfriend and then she came in the middle here and there. but she did it because I told her I would do it with her ex so she can get him back but I never did. my question is does this mean now that I did that for my boyfriend he is going to want to cheat on me ?
That's a good question. I would think he'd want to hold on you even more, not less since you trusted him that much. Why would he want to cheat now since he didn't have to for the 3-some? Actually your boyfriend owes you a favor back, and it might be a good idea that when he wants to pay back you should take him up on that. If you don't want to that's okay too. But he's lucky that he had a chance to experience another woman with your permission and if he ever gives you the same permission, I'd take him up on that because then he'd not feel guilty anymore and you guys would be even and then you can stop the 3-some thing. (unless you both really want it!)
yeah don't worry about him at all.u got him good.thats a nice present for him and most guys would die for it.so yeah stick to it and you should be good.
not really I have had a threesome with my husband and another woman after we first were married and we have 7 and 9 year old girls now and we haven't cheated on each other
No that wouldn't mean he's going to want to cheat on you. Are you worried that he's going to get curious about sex with other women aside from you and your friend and want to cheat?
Yes because I'm his first I'm really scared I love him so muh and don't want that to happen he is twenty one and doesn't really have a sexual experience with other girls except me but he did say that he wouldn't mind being with one girl for the rest of his life but it would be nice if he can have other sexual experiences with that one girl meaning me - 3 months ago
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Well, unfortunately that's a choice ou made. I would talk to him about your fears and let him know you really care about him. I don't think he will be dumping you or cheating on you. Relationships are a risk...but you gotta be secure enough to know that you will make it out just fine if the worst was to happen. For now enjoy the relationship and his company. No need to worry about something that hasn't even happened yet. - 3 months ago
You just did something for him that most men beg their girlfriends to do forever. He is not going to want to let you go. He's going to want to hold on tight. I wouldn't worry about it at all.
What? Why would he want to cheat! If anything he'd want to hold on to a girl that would welcome another into your bedroom. I wouldn't worry about a thing. I do though understand why you asked. Maybe you're thinking that there are more interesting girls out there, i.e. your friend, that are more sexually liberated or something. I understand, but I wouldn't worry about it.
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