Do you ever compare an ex during sex?

Of course. I think it's totally normal to compare guys to what you've had in the past. Not just sexually, but in other ways too. The guys you've dated and the experiences you've had are part of what forms your tastes. Even if you're not doing it consciously, I think it's there in the back of your mind.

With regards to sex specifically, for a long time there was one guy who was kind of the gold standard in terms of anything sexual. He wasn't really a good boyfriend in any other way, but somehow he just understood what my body wanted and gave it to me. I felt that no one ever quite matched up, until I found my current guy. It's not just that he's bigger (although he is), he's also better. He just gets it. I tell him something once, he says "like this?" and I say yes. And then he remembers. It's really good

Yeah. My ex was shit and I think about how better my current partner is at everything. XD

Yeah, which is kind of bad. I kinda wish my guy now was as good as an ex that I dated with oral sex. But then again, he rocks my world better than my ex.

But even though it sucks to compare how good or how bad the guy is, its different if I care about him, and makes the lovin' much sweeter!

sometimes, I guess it depends. if its someone that you really are into. you pretty much don't think about anything else. but if you just having fun with someone you are more comparative. for the most part, we wait till after the sex and make comparisons to your closest girlfriend

No when I get over an ex. I'm 100% over him and don't compare him at all to the other guy. and those feelings that I had for the ex are impossible to rekindle.